THIS! 🌈🌈🌈 For so long I was stuck in a form of myself that was old and out dated. For reasons of my own, I had to become a very head strong girl. I was very sure of myself, very confident in my words and opinion. I was brave and fierce, but as well as that - I was stubborn, I was defensive and I wasn’t able to be emotionally in touch with myself and others. This version of myself became outdated, it wasn’t needed anymore. I had no reason to fend people off, to shut them out, to stand up for myself. I had found a life worth living and the only thing that was missing was a person who knew she deserved it and acted like it. I have had to spend some serrrrrious soulful time working on who I am and my personality traits. I now show kindness, empathy, love and understanding to myself and others. Don’t let what happened to you in the past define who you are now. Learn that you can change, that the wall you built up can actually come down now. I whole heartedly love the me I am today, I want you too aswell! It takes some hard work and some emotional roller coasters but the end result is worth it. This topic is one I could ramble on about for hours honestly - take the step today on working on what you know needs working on🌟