::Look where you want to go, not where you are at:: I was in Uluwatu with two of my girlfriends, Alex and Emily.
Alex, was with me while I was learning to drive a scooter. I was in the parking lot doing a lot of figure eights, when she shouted out to me “Look where you want to go, not where you are at!” I giggled and said, “ain’t that a life lesson”
Every time I got on my scooter after that, I would think of what she said.
Sometimes, in life, when we are “in it”, in the thick of the storm, plugging away at life, we get caught up in where we are at, what is going on right now and we forget to look out ahead of us. To see and envision where want to go.
Looking where you want to go will help give you direction. The course can change, but if you have an idea where you want to go you will get there. And if you allow the course to change sometimes you end up in places better than you planned.
If you have no direction you will be aimlessly driving, and get frustrated being in the storm. You won’t see the clear skies on the other side.
The last few months I have been really creating a vision and goals for MYSELF. What do I want in the next 3 months, 6 months, 12 months. Where am I going? What do I want to create?
When we are in relationships, it can be easy to put our own dreams on hold or less of a priority. Or if that relationship ends, we can feel lost because we haven’t set goals and visions for ourselves.
When you have your OWN goals and vision it will create a life that you desire and the people that are supposed to be in your life will show up. They will fit into it.
You will know who and what you want and they will know who and want you want. And the relationship will be two individuals creating together, versus one creating it. Have you created a vision for yourself? Do you have goals?
Part of being a Brave Bold Woman is setting out goals and a vision for yourself and taking action to make it happen.
What’s something you want to create for yourself in the next 3 months?
Do you need help creating goals and vision? I am here for you. DM me and let’s set up a call to start creating a life you dream of.
Bravely and Boldly,
Ash