As Tai Lopez said, " The worst thing to do to someone is to reduce their pain, for what they might miss on this crucial experience in life." One of the biggest mistake we do in our relationship is holding ourselves responsible for other person's happiness. What we don't realise is, this pleasure is short lived and in long run this just adds on to the expectations and someday the relationship will just break down.
I understand, seeing your loved one in pain is the most difficult thing. We want their suffering to vanish. We want them to be happy. But that does not mean your actions should carve their path of happiness.
Happiness is a choice, not a result. You cannot make them happy, until they decide to be happy. See the bigger picture, let them experience pain so that they could also learn to grow in life.
Just think of what could be the ultimate level of relationship?! A relationship where you both are connected so deeply, but at the same time independent of each other at an individual level. Imagine how powerful that relationship would be. Exactly!
If you feel complete in yourself, you'd automatically spread the vibe to your near and dear one's. But just for the short run, don't commit to feed the expectations because what follows next is just undesirable.
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