๐ฉ๐จ๐๐ก๐๐ฅ๐๐๐๐๐๐ง๐ฌย ๐๐. ๐ข๐ฉ๐๐ฅ๐ฆ๐๐๐ฅ๐๐ก๐
๐ฅ๐๐ง๐ฉ 2 / 2.
i see too many reckless / irresponsible shares of emotional turmoil on here lately that give me pause. in my eyes, rawness and true vulnerability should never be silenced; HOWEVER, there is a way to share things responsibly for both yourself and others.
for me, the distinguishing factor in deciding what is a healthy, authentically vulnerable share is asking yourself this question:
๐๐ถ๐น๐น ๐ต๐ผ๐ย ๐ ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐น ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ต๐ผ๐ ๐ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ป๐ธ ๐ผ๐ณ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐'๐บ ๐ฒ๐
๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฒ๐ป๐ฐ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ฒ๐ณ๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ฐ๐๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฏ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐๐ฝ๐ผ๐ป๐๐ฒ ๐ ๐ด๐ฒ๐ ๐ฏ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ต๐ถ๐?
๐๐ฒ ๐ก๐๐๐ ๐๐ผ ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ด๐ฒ๐๐ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ.
and by this, i meanย we need to do the work to process our thoughts and emotions on some level before opening them up to a forum like instagram. validation of likes, supportive / enabling comments, commendations for being so 'open'.... these are all veils that make us feel like we did the emotional work. but sharing on a social media platform is NOT the work of true growth and reflection.
do we need to have everything wrapped up in a pretty little bow before we share them? nope. not saying that; ๐ฏ๐๐ ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ, ๐ฑ๐ผ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฒ๐น๐ณ ๐ฎ ๐ธ๐ถ๐ป๐ฑ๐ป๐ฒ๐๐ ๐ฏ๐ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ผ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ป๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ฝ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ธ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐บ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ป๐ ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ ๐๐ผ ๐ฎ ๐ท๐๐ฟ๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ถ๐๐ป'๐ ๐น๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐น๐ถ๐ณ๐ฒ.
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