As a parent do you have counseling sessions with your children? As you take care of what they eat, wear and comfort, also have a relationship with your children, give them your guidance and wisdom as a parents. A lot of children are victims of bullies in their school, and they can't speak up cause they're afraid their bullies will hear of it. Let's start building the self-esteem of our children, teach them to be DEFENSIVE (enroll them in taekwondo classes sef), teach them to be BOLD, teach them to never be AFRAID of their mates in any environment, teach them to be STREET WISE, teach them to know when to say YES/NO and not give in to PRESSURE, teach them to be EXPRESSIVE of their emotions and feelings, teach them to be KIND, teach them to be CONSIDERATE, teach them how to set BOUNDARIES, teach them not to be WICKED and VIOLENT to other people, teach them to know their SELF-WORTH always, show them LOVE and FRIENDSHIP. It's your job as a parent to be a disciplinarian and a counselor to your children, as a father have a relationship with your children give them your moral support. The role of a father can never be neglected, as a father be a present daddy. As a mother be an observant mummy, take a close look on the personality of your child and take action when needed asap and correct anything going wrong with their personality. If you don't bring up a child in a way that he/she will be proud of, that child will resent you when they grow up for not being that parents they want. Don't be close but very far away from your children. And while you're doing the good work as a parents make sure your own children aren't the "BULLIES" 📌 #saynotobullies Sending your children to therapy or counseling is good, let a therapist help your child if you feel there's need to. Don't encourage their bad behavior as a parent cause you're destroying that child. They'll enter the society and create havoc in so many ways. Remember "don't spare the rod and spoil the child". Proverbs 13:24 whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him #womenin4counselling
Just swipe next 👉🏼 to what I woke up to 😋 Mental health is essential to our overall well-being and as important as physical health. When we feel mentally well, we can work productively, enjoy our free time, and contribute actively to our communities. Mental health is influenced by several biological, psychological, social and environmental factors which interact in complex ways. These include: Structural factors such as unsafe living environments, employment, education, freedom from discrimination and violence, and access to economic resources. The effects of our mental health are experienced in every aspect of our lives. Our moods, physical health, and social connections help us cope better with adversity and unexpected hurdles. Together, they contribute to our sense of wellbeing and our mental health. We all know that to keep a car going, we have to fill it with petrol, check the oil and water regularly and give the tires some air. To see a bank balance grow, we need to make steady deposits. But how often do we take the time to reflect on whether we are giving ourselves what we need to flourish and live well? It can be so easy for us to take our mental health for granted; to prioritise other things; to put it off until whenever. It can also seem too big and too hard. But it’s not, take your mental wellbeing seriously, book a session with us today let's work through it together #womenin4counselling
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Marriage counseling is a psychotherapy that helps couples in a marriage to identify the problems in their relationship, resolve their conflicts, and improve their relationship. It also offers a place to help couples separate constructive. Marriage counselling is also known as"couple's therapy" 👫 Here are signs you need to speak to a counselor: 1⃣ You hardly speak to each other: The absence of communication is one of the major setbacks that your marriage has. 2⃣ You argue unnecessarily and about everything: If arguments, with a negative tone, become a daily affair, then that is sure to affect your relationship 3⃣ You're afraid to speak: In a marriage, you have the liberty to talk about finances, health, habits, and just about anything. If you are hesitant to discuss things with your spouse, however trivial or crucial they might be, then it means that there is trouble in your Marriage 4⃣ You restrict love and affection as punishment: If one of you gets angry and stops talking, loving and caring your partner to punish them, then it is leading to resentment 5⃣ You keep secrets: There needs to be transparency in a healthy marriage, when you start sharing things with each other your Marriage might get into trouble 6⃣ Have an extramarital affair: An affair could be the root for several problems in a marriage. When one of you longs or gets into an extra-marital affair, it means that you are replacing your partner with someone else. 7⃣ You lack Intimacy in your Marriage: When you stop being intimate with your spouse, it often signals that something is wrong If you're seeing these signs hop into my DM for consultation or click on the link in my bio to view website and session package. Come let's work together! I guarantee you will give me a testimonial after #womenin4counselling
life is like a box of chocolate, you never know what you’re going to fall for”. And love relationships are the same: you never know what or who you will be able to fall! If some people end up meeting the love of their life and live a stable and balanced love relationship, based on the principles of respect, sharing, devotion; others, on the other hand, have more trouble and sometimes fall on real “pearls”! Men who do not spare you or your feelings and you know this man it's someone to fall for. Overview of men not to marry especially if you want to be and stay happy: Read the slides. Join our singles path to love and it's the best thing you did for yourself this year. Don't let this year waste your time. Send a DM for consultation and enquiry on booking. #womenin4counselling
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Being a good husband is the vow you made to your wife, it's a dedication, not just a name(husband). Everyday the wife thrives on how to be a good wife and mother and still runs the business or go to work. And it seems most men have forgotten they've got a role too and they're expected to be a good husbands too. Ways you can become a good husband to your wife: 1️⃣. Make your relationship your top priority (stop cheating upandan): 2️⃣. DATE YOUR WIFE ALL OVER AGAIN: Don't let your relationship and connection die, date her all over again it helps in bonding. There are men who tell you their girlfriend is their wife, they haven't died doing that. It's actually fun, just try it 3️⃣. FIGHT FOR YOUR MARRIAGE: it's not only a woman that keeps a marriage, in fact you're to be held responsible if your marriage collapsed because you initiated the marriage at first. As it is important to wife, so as it more important to you. If you fail in your Marriage you've also failed as a man 4️⃣. SHOW YOUR WIFE YOU APPRECIATE HER: you appreciate your side chick but the woman that has brought life (children)to you how do you appreciate her for using her body as a tool to bless you as a father. Appreciate her everyday, it can never be enough 5️⃣. COMPLIMENT HER OFTEN, GENUINELY, and UNCONDITIONALLY: despite her body changes after childbirth never cease to compliment her. Remind her she looks beautiful and gorgeous, say nice things to her. 6️⃣. PRACTICE PATIENCE: God made you the head of the family for a reason. Patience and tolerance is one of the virtues of a leader. Don't always act when she talks, remember a woman is blessed with verbal power. Don't mind her mouth😃 7️⃣. DEVELOP YOUR EMOTIONAL VOCABULARY and RESPECT HER . There are so many on the list but with these ones I have listed for you, if you do all these things as a husband there's no way your wife won't be encouraged to be a loving and supportive wife. We women needs assurance that we're not alone in this marriage, we needs to be reminded that your love and dedication hasn't fade. For more tips on how to get your marital Bliss, click on the link in my bio to book a session or send a DM #womenin4counselling
Matters of the heart can be draining and sensitive. Your decision in tackling issues of the heart can be controlled by your emotions. When having issues that involves the heart and feelings it can put you in a vulnerable state🤷🏽♀. When it concerns "the matters of the heart", do not ignore or try to push it off. If not properly addressed, it will come up in every relationship you have, it affects you psychologically without you noticing it. Then what do you do when you find yourself in issues of the heart? Do not involve a third party(friends, relatives, colleagues), You speak to a counselor or therapist, don't carry it alone. Let someone help you with the right counsel. Do not neglect things that concerns "the matters of the heart", invest in it. You can't even run a business when your heart is in turmoil👌🏼 Now work with me, let's help you get back your Bliss. #womenin4counselling
This year no gree for anybody abeg. Choose your happiness first! Go for Marriage Counselling Session! Go for Couple Coaching! Go for premarital counselling before your wedding! Go for Mental Wellbeing Therapy! Spice Up your Sex Life and Intimacy Make an effort to be a better husband/wife! Be committed to your partner! Make it work and let the work start from you being intentional. #womenin4counselling
Matters of the heart can be draining and sensitive. Your decision in tackling issues of the heart can be controlled by your emotions. When having issues that involves the heart and feelings it can put you in a vulnerable state🤷🏽♀. When it concerns "the matters of the heart", do not ignore or try to push it off. If not properly addressed, it will come up in every relationship you have, it affects you psychologically without you noticing it. Then what do you do when you find yourself in issues of the heart? Do not involve a third party(friends, relatives, colleagues), You speak to a counselor or therapist, don't carry it alone. Let someone help you with the right counsel. Do not neglect things that concerns "the matters of the heart", invest in it. You can't even run a business when your heart is in turmoil👌🏼 Now work with me, let's help you get back your Bliss. #womenin4counselling
I love this post in particular, a lot of women are having negative mindset about happy marriage. These days people think being loved or being with someone that loves you can not be achieved because of sad stories of broken marriages and relationship. Let me tell you ladies, there're still men that wants to give you everything and make you happy and there're still women who wants to give you the best of her. But at times we search for love at the wrong places, we forfeit our happiness for material things, then sooner or later it falls back crashing on heartbreaks. You can still be happy, when you choose happiness, not when you leave love and chase money, fine man and material things. When material things are your sole priority in a relationship, you will be blind to other things about them that's very obvious but you chose to ignore it. Ngwanu continue, you'll be the one to cry later. Just know from the beginning you didn't go there for love, that's the sad truth. 😂 Are you confused about your relationship? Are you having trouble settling that misunderstanding with your spouse? Are you giving up on your marriage, not yet dear Just click on the link in bio let's help you. Book your session #womenin4counselling
📢 Stop being comfortable with "if it doesn't work I'll leave". This very statement is the reason there's high rise of divorce in the society, having that statement in mind will take your mind away from being a committed partner. 📢 In your mind you think everyone is having a bad marriage, na lie o! Big lies, millions of couple enjoy marital bliss. And it's not cause they're perfect, no! It's cause they chose their marriage first, they're committed to making it work and they fight for each other and not against each other. So why can't you do same? Why can't you find out how to work things out and be a better partner? 📢 I HAVE PROVEN PRACTICAL SOLUTION THAT I HAVE GIVEN TO OTHER COUPLES I HAVE WORKED WITH THAT WILL HELP YOU TOO IN YOUR MARRIAGE ONLY IF YOU CHOOSE THAT MARRIAGE TODAY. 📢 Your fav celebrities are coming for marriage tips and counselling, so why can't you? You're waiting for the next failed marriage story so you'll continue to be in your "misery loves company". Dey play, you'll learn the hard way 😂 Don't let the year end without working things out in your marriage, come I will give you discount on any session package on couple session. 👌🏼 📢 Try working with me and see if your marriage will remain the same, If you don't come back with a testimonial let me know why. #womenin4counselling
Na you wey dey follow people wey no do anything for their marriage dey talk "if e no work I will leave". Don't worry dey play, you go learn the hard way 😂 Millions of people are enjoying marriage, leave everything you're doing and invest in your marriage. I have proven practical solutions that I have given to 100s of couple over the years that will help you restore your marital bliss. I dey wait you for DM #womenin4counselling
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Matters of the heart can be draining and sensitive. Your decision in tackling issues of the heart can be controlled by your emotions. When having issues that involves the heart and feelings it can put you in a vulnerable state🤷🏽♀. When it concerns "the matters of the heart", do not ignore or try to push it off. If not properly addressed, it will come up in every relationship you have, it affects you psychologically without you noticing it. Then what do you do when you find yourself in issues of the heart? Do not involve a third party(friends, relatives, colleagues), You speak to a counselor or therapist, don't carry it alone. Let someone help you with the right counsel. Do not neglect things that concerns "the matters of the heart", invest in it. You can't even run a business when your heart is in turmoil👌🏼 Now work with me, let's help you get back your Bliss. #womenin4counselling
As far as you've made it to the eleventh month, God is good to you. May God perfect all that concerns you in the eleventh hour, Amen! Happy new month fam #womenin4counselling #marriagegoals #marriageproblems #marriagecoach #naijawedding #naijacouple #nov2023 #happynewmonth
No 1 mental health psychologist in Nigeria Swipe to read this testimonial 🔥 Mental health is essential to our overall well-being and as important as physical health. When we feel mentally well, we can work productively, enjoy our free time, and contribute actively to our communities. Mental health is influenced by several biological, psychological, social and environmental factors which interact in complex ways. These include: Structural factors such as safe living environments, employment, education, freedom from discrimination and violence, and access to economic resources. The effects of our mental health are experienced in every aspect of our lives. Our moods, physical health, and social connections help us cope better with adversity and unexpected hurdles. Together, they contribute to our sense of wellbeing and our mental health. We all know that to keep a car going, we have to fill it with petrol, check the oil and water regularly and give the tires some air. To see a bank balance grow, we need to make steady deposits. But how often do we take the time to reflect on whether we are giving ourselves what we need to flourish and live well? It can be so easy for us to take our mental health for granted; to prioritize other things; to put it off until whenever. It can also seem too big and too hard. But it’s not, take your mental wellbeing seriously, book a session with us today let's work through it together. The link in bio will take you to booking and session packages #womenin4counselling
Read that again! If you're able to understand these words you'll be able to resolve all conflicts in your marriage. #womenin4counselling #blackmarriage #blackcouples #marriagecoach #naijacouple #marriageproblems #marriagehelp
Communication is the key to unlocking everything else that happens in your marriage, your marriage can stand or fall on it. Speaking the truth in love to one another makes us grow up in our relationship with God. Similarly, speaking the truth in love to each other as married people makes us grow closer to each other. Stop checking who's going for marriage counselling, make a decision and work on your marriage today, restore your marital bliss. Nobody will tell you when they come for marriage counselling, even your fav celebs are coming for marriage counselling. There's nothing wrong with you working for something that gives you peace of mind. #womenin4counselling
Telling a woman you love her while continuing to mistreat her is mental and emotional abuse. If you're doing that just stop it, you don't know the damage you're doing to her mental well-being. The best place in the world is in the arms of someone who will not only hold you at your best but will pick you up at your weakest moment. This is why I will always tell people don't ignore your mental well-being, if you can go for a mental well-being therapy, do it. You'll realize it's the best decision you made to save yourself. Let's help you in our mental well-being therapy, you'll be happy you did. Click on the link in bio to book session on mental well-being therapy. I have had multiple recommendations from people who did this therapy with me and trust me it's not all marriage counselor that does mental well-being therapy here in Nigeria. As a mental health psychologist, let me help you today. #womenin4counselling
Matters of the heart can be draining and sensitive. Your decision in tackling issues of the heart can be controlled by your emotions. When having issues that involves the heart and feelings it can put you in a vulnerable state🤷🏽♀. When it concerns "the matters of the heart", do not ignore or try to push it off. If not properly addressed, it will come up in every relationship you have, it affects you psychologically without you noticing it. Then what do you do when you find yourself in issues of the heart? Do not involve a third party(friends, relatives, colleagues), You speak to a counselor or therapist, don't carry it alone. Let someone help you with the right counsel. Do not neglect things that concerns "the matters of the heart", invest in it. You can't even run a business when your heart is in turmoil👌🏼 Now work with me, let's help you get back your Bliss. #womenin4counselling
As wonderful as your relationship may be, it’s almost certain that there will be times when you and your partner may drift apart, or when circumstances put additional strain on your marriage. The point is that relationships need maintenance, like anything you care deeply about. With these five ways it'll help you reconnect back with your partner; 1️⃣ Make your marriage a priority; chose it your relationship everyday. Do not neglect your duty, always remember you're now a partner and a team 2️⃣ Ask yourself "is what I'm doing healthy for my relationship?" Am I contributing to our problems!" If you answer honestly to yourself you'll be able to know the right thing to do 3️⃣ Disconnect from I'm busy at work or with my business; if you spend all your 24/7 focusing on your work, when will you have time for your partner. Create a balance for the both, once you're back home spend time together 4️⃣ Set healthy boundaries; A lot of the folks I work with have a hard time with this one. I am not saying shut your partner out of your life, or ignore them, or stonewall in arguments. But every relationship needs some level of privacy. It is important you have your own friends, interests, hobbies, emails, therapy appointments etc. It is important you are able to respectfully disagree and say no to one another and that your boundaries are respected. Healthy boundaries makes you not to argue or disagree all the time. 5️⃣ Above all be kind to your partner; Sometimes it’s hard when things get rough to remember this but above all else, be kind to your partner. When things get heated, take a 10-minute break from the conversation rather than getting vicious, threatening or spiteful. Remember you love this person, and even if you are hurt, your intention is to stay connected and kind. Be intentional about your marriage, there are millions of couple enjoying marital bliss, create yours and be in a healthy relationship. Speaking to a certified family life therapist can help you get some clarity on your issues as a couple. Invest in your marriage, book a session today and start your journey of getting back your marital Bliss. #womenin4counselling
If it's not coach Chidimma, it's nobody else who does it best! You can't work with me and remain the same, lie lie. There's a reason why 60% of my clients are from recommendation from the people I have worked with. And that reason I'm the best is the testimonial like this👆🏻, let me be collecting my 🌺🌹💐 I deserve it biko See where to spend your money as engaged couple, and not on a luxury wedding celebration.😒 You've taken time to study about the type of outfits that suits you, the type of food you like and goes well with your body system, the type of man you want to be with but have you taken time to study the marriage you'll have? Do you just conclude that 2 years of dating or how long you dated is a guarantee your marriage will last? No, do you know why 🤷🏽♀️ because in marriage everything changes, that's when the reality of life hits you and you'll start seeing your real partners in their real form. Even you will be so relaxed to forget how you package whenever you're meeting with your boyfriend or girlfriend 😄, that's why after the wedding some couple starts complaining about their partner and how they've changed. Well they didn't change it's just they're now being themselves around you without any packaging, that's why premarital counselling is very important for about to Wed couples. There are still people that fell into depression after marriage. Marriage comes with a lot of dedication, discipline, tolerance and commitment to make it work. You have to be in a good mental state too. So many reasons why; Seeing the mentality the society has pushed on some people on marriage, understanding that the person you're about to get married to or already married to is an entirely different person than you are that grew up in a different environment and exposure is enough to convince you. The insurance you give to that marriage is making sure you did premarital counselling with your partner before marriage, your marriage can never be the same with couple that didn't do a premarital counselling before marriage with just N188,000 instead of N240,000 the original price📌 Click on the link in bio now #womenin4counselling
Looking past each other’s mistakes is easier said than done. But both you and your spouse would have to make a conscious effort. This will help you understand each other better and ensure that you don’t tread on the path which hurts your spouse. Always remember you're fighting for each other not against each other, that way you'll forgive easier. Talk to a certified marriage counselor, reconcile with your partner. Work on reconnecting your bond. The link in bio will help you book a session #womenin4counselling
Swipe to enjoy the slides on how to communicate in marriage. Communication in marriage is not that hard, it's you that doesn't want to learn or make effort about it. Communication is the key to unlocking your relationship, bonding, friendship, intimacy. Without a good communication in your marriage is just like you subscribed to unhappiness and fights. Learn to communicate and you'll see "creating a blissful marriage it's not myth or something you can't achieve". We offer singles and married counselling sessions, couple counselling and private coaching too. Click on the link in bio to browse through our services 🤗 #womenin4counselling
Now the wedding is over, you're now left with you and your partner to enjoy your marriage. Welcome to the new phase of your life, I will say this decision will directly affect and determine the success of every other area in your life. That's why we'll be exploring advice with newlyweds to guide you. 1️⃣ Close your Eyes, Ears and Mouth; After marriage, you are going to come in contact with so many people you should have married or people you even look at as being better than your spouse, but not to worry, one thing is sure, you are married to your choice and you only need to work together.So learn to keep your eyes shut from looking elsewhere and feeling that the grass is greener there, tend your own garden. Also, close your eyes to the way your spouse relates with members of the opposite gender, you may be tempted to get jealous. Tell yourself you won😄 Close your ears: you may be tempted to get sweet compliments from an Ex luring you into thinking you made the wrong choice but don’t fall for it. If they meant well, you should have been with them and not who you are with presently. On the other hand, close your ears to negative comments and advice when it comes to your spouse. Lastly, close your mouth. After you have seen and heard, do not be quick to speak so you don’t spark up disagreements between you and your mate. 2️⃣ Take it Slowly; While you are excited about your union, sometimes you may feel drained and unhappy. I bet you may have had several misunderstandings by now and you are wondering if this is the same person you dated. It happens but don’t be too hard on yourself, take it slowly on each other, don’t expect perfection. 3️⃣ Be a good listener; Everyone always has something to say but can you take a pause and listen to your partner. Can they know they have your ears regardless of how tired you are or what they want to talk to you about? This will make them talk to you about anything and not hold back. To be continued! Wait for part 2 #womenin4counselling
Relationships in marriage need to be worked on not sparingly but intentionally. You can save yourself the heartache by discovering how to strengthen your marriage with some happy marriage tips that will spice your relationship. Let’s look at a few ways to strengthen your marriage, tips to improve marriage, and how to strengthen your marriage bond. Swipe and enjoy the tips 👉🏼 Don't forget my job here is to make sure all your matters of the heart concerns are taken care of. The link in bio will help you have more information about sessions and booking. If your fav celebs are working on their marriage why haven't you? You are among the group of "misery loves company abi", taa! Go and get your marital bliss. Millions of couples are enjoying marital bliss, don't be deceived. #womenin4counselling
Being a good husband is the vow you made to your wife, it's a dedication, not just a name(husband). Everyday the wife thrives on how to be a good wife and mother and still runs the business or go to work. And it seems most men have forgotten they've got a role too and they're expected to be a good husbands too. Ways you can become a good husband to your wife: 1️⃣. Make your relationship your top priority (stop cheating upandan): 2️⃣. DATE YOUR WIFE ALL OVER AGAIN: Don't let your relationship and connection die, date her all over again it helps in bonding. There are men who tell you their girlfriend is their wife, they haven't died doing that. It's actually fun, just try it 3️⃣. FIGHT FOR YOUR MARRIAGE: it's not only a woman that keeps a marriage, in fact you're to be held responsible if your marriage collapsed because you initiated the marriage at first. As it is important to wife, so as it more important to you. If you fail in your Marriage you've also failed as a man 4️⃣. SHOW YOUR WIFE YOU APPRECIATE HER: you appreciate your side chick but the woman that has brought life (children)to you how do you appreciate her for using her body as a tool to bless you as a father. Appreciate her everyday, it can never be enough 5️⃣. COMPLIMENT HER OFTEN, GENUINELY, and UNCONDITIONALLY: despite her body changes after childbirth never cease to compliment her. Remind her she looks beautiful and gorgeous, say nice things to her. 6️⃣. PRACTICE PATIENCE: God made you the head of the family for a reason. Patience and tolerance is one of the virtues of a leader. Don't always act when she talks, remember a woman is blessed with verbal power. Don't mind her mouth😃 7️⃣. DEVELOP YOUR EMOTIONAL VOCABULARY and RESPECT HER . There are so many on the list but with these ones I have listed for you, if you do all these things as a husband there's no way your wife won't be encouraged to be a loving and supportive wife. We women needs assurance that we're not alone in this marriage, we needs to be reminded that your love and dedication hasn't fade. For more tips on how to get your marital Bliss, click on the link in my bio to book a session or send a DM #womenin4counselling
💚🤍🖤 Whatever you're doing in your marriage make sure you're giving it your all. Na #obisaura dey motivate this body goal right here, if you're a plus size you'll understand the struggle to lose weight aswear. This picture was even in June, wait till you see the July 🤸🏻🤸🏻🤸🏻 #throwbackthursday #womenin4counselling
Matters of the heart can be draining and sensitive. Your decision in tackling issues of the heart can be controlled by your emotions. When having issues that involves the heart and feelings it can put you in a vulnerable state🤷🏽♀. When it concerns "the matters of the heart", do not ignore or try to push it off. If not properly addressed, it will come up in every relationship you have, it affects you psychologically without you noticing it. Then what do you do when you find yourself in issues of the heart? Do not involve a third party(friends, relatives, colleagues), You speak to a certified counselor or therapist, don't carry it alone. Let someone help you with the right counsel. Do not neglect things that concerns "the matters of the heart", invest in it. You can't even run a business when your heart is in turmoil👌🏼 Now work with me, let's help you get deal with that your matters of the heart concerns #womenin4counselling
Just swipe next 👉🏼 to what I woke up to 😋 Mental health is essential to our overall well-being and as important as physical health. When we feel mentally well, we can work productively, enjoy our free time, and contribute actively to our communities. Mental health is influenced by several biological, psychological, social and environmental factors which interact in complex ways. These include: Structural factors such as unsafe living environments, employment, education, freedom from discrimination and violence, and access to economic resources. The effects of our mental health are experienced in every aspect of our lives. Our moods, physical health, and social connections help us cope better with adversity and unexpected hurdles. Together, they contribute to our sense of wellbeing and our mental health. We all know that to keep a car going, we have to fill it with petrol, check the oil and water regularly and give the tires some air. To see a bank balance grow, we need to make steady deposits. But how often do we take the time to reflect on whether we are giving ourselves what we need to flourish and live well? It can be so easy for us to take our mental health for granted; to prioritise other things; to put it off until whenever. It can also seem too big and too hard. But it’s not, take your mental wellbeing seriously, book a session with us today let's work through it together #womenin4counselling
ALL VAGINAS EVEN HEALTHY ONES HAS ODOUR BY @nursejessypink 💃💃💃💃💃 Your Vjay odour can change in response to Sex, medication or other factors listed above. Some Vjay smells like onion, vinegar or even mild Like that. The only problem is if this odour comes with Pains, smelling discharge and itching then you have to speak to your health provider!!! 🚫RUN 🏃♀️ AWAY from anyone that tells you that your vjay is odourless…. RUN!!!! Buy Vjay this and that!!! Coochie wash and the rest!!! Run oooooo!!!! You are killing the normal Flora of your Vjay!!! Hear and Learn!!! With Love 💕 #nursejessypink #vjay #women #womenempowerment #womensupportingwomen #womenin4counselling #mensclothing #healthy #helathylifestyle #healthyfood
ALL VAGINAS EVEN HEALTHY ONES HAS ODOUR 💃💃💃💃💃 Your Vjay odour can change in response to Sex, medication or other factors listed above. Some Vjay smells like onion, vinegar or even mild Like that. The only problem is if this odour comes with Pains, smelling discharge and itching then you have to speak to your health provider!!! 🚫RUN 🏃♀️ AWAY from anyone that tells you that your vjay is odourless…. RUN!!!! Buy Vjay this and that!!! Coochie wash and the rest!!! Run oooooo!!!! You are killing the normal Flora of your Vjay!!! Hear and Learn!!! With Love 💕 #nursejessypink #vjay #women #womenempowerment #womensupportingwomen #womenin4counselling #mensclothing #healthy #helathylifestyle #healthyfood
Have we all forgotten how romantic and connecting love letters are? When last did you send a love note to your partner? Have you thought of reviving your attraction and bond with your partner? A lot of us after the wedding we forget about love and romance, thereby creating gap between the two of you. . . Write him a love note today and send it, reminding him how you spent your first night or your first date. Push his mind back to when he first met you. You know the rest of your love story, oya go and do some lovy lovy with ya partner 😁 #Womenin4counselling NEED MORE TIPS ON HOW TO SPICE UP YOUR MARRIAGE? Just click on the link on the bio to book a session.
Read that again! If you're able to understand these words you'll be able to resolve all conflicts in your marriage. #womenin4counselling #blackmarriage #blackcouples #marriagecoach #naijacouple #marriageproblems #marriagehelp
Happy new month my people, It's well with us all. #womenin4counselling
Anybody that's not ready to be committed to their partner, biko don't get married. Stay in your single self! The rate at which men cheat in their marriage is so alarming and distasteful. I get a lot of depressed messages all week from married women that are facing infidelity in their marriage. A cheating partner doesn't even understand the emotional stress they put their partners on, the pain they put their partners through. It's so bad bikonu, if we continue like this what impact are we creating on our children the next generation 🤷🏻♀️ I don't want to talk too much abeg, I will do a video when I have the energy to address this properly. #womenin4counselling
Do You View Commitment at all Three Levels, or Just One or Two mentioned above? Be honest, assessing where you are is not for condemnation. It is for God to shine a light on the areas in which need work so that your marriage will last a lifetime. Assess its strengths, and its weaknesses by asking yourself the following: 1️⃣ Is your marriage on autopilot? 2️⃣ Have you been cruising along and have lost sight of the direction you are going? 3️⃣ Where would you like to see you marriage go before the end of this year? 4️⃣ How committed are you to making positive changes to strengthen your relationship? 5️⃣ If you continue to do the same things you did before you saw this post, will it improve your marriage? 6️⃣ How committed are you to your marriage for the long haul? 7️⃣ What is your spouse’s level of commitment to your marriage? Ok, so you have examined yourself Mr and Mrs John Doe and maybe you have some work to do, won't you put in this work for your marriage? Know this; there's nothing wrong in working with a marriage counselor in your marriage. Making that decision today will save you before resentment sets in between you and your partner. Invest in your marriage, get on the link in bio to book a session let's work together. Come let me give a touch of the holy spirit direction for your marriage. #womenin4counselling
Communication is the key to unlocking everything else that happens in your marriage, your marriage can stand or fall on it. Speaking the truth in love to one another makes us grow up in our relationship with God. Similarly, speaking the truth in love to each other as married people makes us grow closer to each other. #womenin4counselling
I have brought you an offer that you wouldn't want to sleep on!!! And it's for limited slots because we don't want to overwork us, we would take some numbers and that's it. This mid-year offer will run from 12 to 15 June 2023 and it's on all sessions package. How does it work; click on the link in bio, go to "book sessions", check out the session package you want to go for and the price on it then come back and pay the 20% discount. You can send a WhatsApp message or DM for assistance. Note; don't book through the website, it only allows full payment booking. #womenin4counselling
I have brought you an offer that you wouldn't want to sleep on!!! And it's for limited slots because we don't want to overwork us, we would take some numbers and that's it. This mid-year offer will run from 12 to 15 June 2023 and it's on all sessions package. How does it work; click on the link in bio, go to "book sessions", check out the session package you want to go for and the price on it then come back and pay the 20% discount. You can send a WhatsApp message or DM for assistance. Note; don't book through the website, it only allows full payment booking. #womenin4counselling
One more day to go and close this offer! I told you it's for limited slots 😜 I can't take more than my power so I can sleep at night na ⬇️ I have brought you an offer that you wouldn't want to sleep on!!! And it's for limited slots because we don't want to overwork us, we would take some numbers and that's it. This mid-year offer will run from 12 to 15 June 2023 and it's on all sessions package. How does it work; click on the link in bio, go to "book sessions", check out the session package you want to go for and the price on it then come back and pay the 20% discount. You can send a WhatsApp message or DM for assistance. Note; don't book through the website, it only allows full payment booking. #womenin4counselling
Saturdays are for errands ❤️🌺 🛒🛍️ What are you selling?, let me know if it's on my list 😜
Read that again if you're able to understand these words you'll be able to resolve all conflicts in your marriage. We'll be having our 20% mid-year discount on all sessions package, stay tuned for more details on it soon. Talk to a certified marriage counselor e get why😎 #womenin4counselling
I want to start the new month with this testimonial biko. You people don't know my worth on this app o🙄, I suppose add "award winning celebrity counselor" for my bio😜 because I don win award twice and has worked with some celebrity couples 😎🏆 Swipe slide 2 to see the first testimonial after our clarity session(posted it here on 12th May) and the one on Wednesday after two times session and we still have the last session to go. I won't tag them cause you people are looking up to perfect marriage because they're public figures, don't worry we don't tag our clients 😜. Abeg give me my 🌺🌹 e no easy biko. Happy new month my people, may the month of June bless us with good news 🙏🏽 #womenin4counselling #happynewmonth #june2023 #marriagehelp #weddingsnigeria #naijacouple
I love this post in particular, a lot of people are having negative mindset about happy marriage. These days people think being loved or being with someone that loves you can not be achieved because of sad stories of broken marriages and relationship. Let me tell you ladies/gents there're still men that wants to give you everything and make you happy and there're still women who wants to give you the best of her. But at times we search for love at the wrong places, we forfeit our happiness for material things, then sooner or later it falls back crashing on heartbreaks. You can still be happy, when you choose happiness, not when you leave love and chase money, fine man and material things. When material things are your sole priority in a relationship, you will be blind to other things about them that's very obvious but you chose to ignore it. Ngwanu continue, you'll be the one to cry later. Just know from the beginning you didn't go there for love, that's the sad truth. 😂 Are you confused about your relationship? Are you having trouble settling that misunderstanding with your spouse? Are you giving up on your marriage, not yet dear A good foundation of marriage starts with a premarital counselling class with us and you'll be grateful you invested in your marriage and gave it the insurance it deserves. Just click on the link in bio let's help you. Book your session in any package you prefer #womenin4counselling
Swipe to read this testimonial 🔥 Mental health is essential to our overall well-being and as important as physical health. When we feel mentally well, we can work productively, enjoy our free time, and contribute actively to our communities. Mental health is influenced by several biological, psychological, social and environmental factors which interact in complex ways. These include: Structural factors such as safe living environments, employment, education, freedom from discrimination and violence, and access to economic resources. The effects of our mental health are experienced in every aspect of our lives. Our moods, physical health, and social connections help us cope better with adversity and unexpected hurdles. Together, they contribute to our sense of wellbeing and our mental health. We all know that to keep a car going, we have to fill it with petrol, check the oil and water regularly and give the tires some air. To see a bank balance grow, we need to make steady deposits. But how often do we take the time to reflect on whether we are giving ourselves what we need to flourish and live well? It can be so easy for us to take our mental health for granted; to prioritize other things; to put it off until whenever. It can also seem too big and too hard. But it’s not, take your mental wellbeing seriously, book a session with us today let's work through it together. The link in bio will take you to booking and session packages #womenin4counselling
Matters of the heart can be draining and sensitive. Your decision in tackling issues of the heart can be controlled by your emotions. When having issues that involves the heart and feelings it can put you in a vulnerable state🤷🏽♀. When it concerns "the matters of the heart", do not ignore or try to push it off. If not properly addressed, it will come up in every relationship you have, it affects you psychologically without you noticing it. Then what do you do when you find yourself in issues of the heart? Do not involve a third party(friends, relatives, colleagues), You speak to a certified counselor or therapist, don't carry it alone. Let someone help you with the right counsel. Do not neglect things that concerns "the matters of the heart", invest in it. You can't even run a business when your heart is in turmoil👌🏼 Now work with me, let's help you get deal with that your matters of the heart concerns #womenin4counselling
Come close my dear, celebrities have left you behind 😄 it's only you that doesn't want to invest in your marriage🤣. Just read from the highlighted line, this was a week today(last week Friday). This celebrity couple contacted me for a clarity session, just to see how it'll go before deciding if they'll work with me or not. Okay we sha did the 1 hour clarity session and later in the evening of that day I got this message from them. Like do you know how it feels when the people you work with gives you accolades? Like when people actually sees how good you're in what you do, you'll feel fulfilled and whenever I work with any couple I feel honored to have made them see it's worth it. There's another banger testimonial from them yesterday that made me post this one so you'll understand how we got to the new testimonial. Imagine getting a testimonial from a celebrity couple, unfortunately I can't tag them because my job doesn't permit you to share the identify of your clients😌. You can't work with me and there's no testimonial after our session, that's because the holy spirit is on the lead here. #womenin4counselling
As wonderful as your relationship may be, it’s almost certain that there will be times when you and your partner may drift apart, or when circumstances put additional strain on your marriage. The point is that relationships need maintenance, like anything you care deeply about. With these five ways it'll help you reconnect back with your partner; 1️⃣ Make your marriage a priority; chose it your relationship everyday. Do not neglect your duty, always remember you're now a partner and a team 2️⃣ Ask yourself "is what I'm doing healthy for my relationship?" Am I contributing to our problems!" If you answer honestly to yourself you'll be able to know the right thing to do 3️⃣ Disconnect from I'm busy at work or with my business; if you spend all your 24/7 focusing on your work, when will you have time for your partner. Create a balance for the both, once you're back home spend time together 4️⃣ Set healthy boundaries; A lot of the folks I work with have a hard time with this one. I am not saying shut your partner out of your life, or ignore them, or stonewall in arguments. But every relationship needs some level of privacy. It is important you have your own friends, interests, hobbies, emails, therapy appointments etc. It is important you are able to respectfully disagree and say no to one another and that your boundaries are respected. Healthy boundaries makes you not to argue or disagree all the time. 5️⃣ Above all be kind to your partner; Sometimes it’s hard when things get rough to remember this but above all else, be kind to your partner. When things get heated, take a 10-minute break from the conversation rather than getting vicious, threatening or spiteful. Remember you love this person, and even if you are hurt, your intention is to stay connected and kind. Be intentional about your marriage, there are millions of couple enjoying marital bliss, create yours and be in a healthy relationship. Speaking to a certified family life therapist can help you get some clarity on your issues as a couple. Invest in your marriage, book a session today and start your journey of getting back your marital Bliss. #womenin4counselling
See eh I want to drag couples this morning, I want to drag you by your ear so you'll understand you're actually the one escalating a mere conversation into a gun fight 😂. There will always be disagreement in opinion and decisions but how you present your opinion can most times be wrong due to your tone of voice. Whenever I'm teaching conflicts in marriage l always tell the couple to be mindful of "the MOOD and TONE of communication", communicating in the wrong mood and in the wrong tone can change a mere conversation into a big quarrel in secs🤏🏼. Read the mood of your partner, watch your tone when you want to address any issue, take a deep breath to calm down before you start talking and if you're in a bad mood avoid having a conversation at that time. You can respond with "dear can we talk about this in few minutes, I'm not in a bright mood at the moment", saying that alone will compel your partner into considering changing the topic to finding out why you're in a bad mood. As far as you understand you're not fighting against each other but for each other you'll always find a way to resolve conflicts. Dealing with conflict it's not that hard, we have thought couples practical solutions that helps them deal with conflicts in marriage. And if you do a premarital counselling with us you'll get to know a lifetime knowledge that'll help your marriage. Are you finding it difficult resolving conflicts with your partner, send us a DM to book a session with us today. We're committed in helping you get back your marital bliss. #womenin4counselling
In this month of may chose yourself, chose to take care of your matters of the heart. It's YOU vs YOU o, make I remind you. Now matters of the heart can be draining and sensitive. Your decision in tackling issues of the heart can be controlled by your emotions. When having issues that involves the heart and feelings, it can put you in a vulnerable state🤷🏽♀. When it concerns "the matters of the heart", do not ignore or try to push it off. If not properly addressed, it will come up in every relationship you have, it affects you psychologically without you noticing it. Then what do you do when you find yourself in issues of the heart? Do not involve a third party(friends, relatives, colleagues), You speak to a counselor or therapist, don't carry it alone. Let someone help you with the right counsel. Do not neglect things that concerns "the matters of the heart", invest in it. You can't even run a business when your heart is in turmoil👌🏼 Now work with me, let's help you get back your Bliss. Visit the link in bio to check out booking and session packages. Or you can send a message for consultation. #happynewmonth #womenin4counselling
At times the reason your relationship is not working out right is because you chose the wrong person to work with. If you're not right for each other it's difficult to make it work together. Understand the person you're in a relationship with, are you compatible together, how's your communication, can you tolerate each other, is the person your type???. If you're right for each other you'll know how to make it workout right 😍 Book a session let's help you get clarity on your right partner, visit the link in my bio or send a DM for consultation #womenin4counselling
Always remember you're two different people trying to understand each other's differences and accommodate them. Even if you want to change your spouse, it's not something you make them do asap, it's a gradual process and also making your spouse understand what you want them to do for you or how you want them to understand you. If you don't use the right approach in trying to change them you end up creating problems and misunderstanding in your marriage. Making people think and act like you it's not easy because you have your life and he/she has their life too, to think that you both even had different life experiences it's another thing you should consider. That's why it is said love conquers all weakness, because you will be able to tolerate your spouse differences and still live happily with them. Only if you are able to understand each other 👌 Need clarity in your Marriage? Speak to a certified marriage counselor, let's help you get your Bliss. Click on the link in bio to book a session #Womenin4counselling
Have you sat down to ask yourself what you really want in a relationship? Have you asked yourself what type of man/woman suits your life? What exactly do you want? If you don't know what you want in a relationship you will keep entertaining jokers. Some ladies are just confused really, and so are some men confused too in picking a partner. How do you know the man/woman you want while you date three people at the same time🤷. When you know what you want and he/she is not working in the direction of your plans just let them know straight up you ain't in for jokers so that they understand what they're up for. When a relationship is not what you want, feel free to to make your choice because you already know what you want for yourself.✅ In this 2023 happening like this, don't continue to entertain jokers and passersby in your life👌🏼 If you don't know how to spot what you want, send a DM I will help you with our relationship package. #womenin4counselling #blackmarriage #blackcouples #naijawives #naijamoms #naijacouple #reelsinstagram
Swipe to enjoy the slides on how to communicate in marriage. Communication in marriage is not that hard, it's you that doesn't want to learn or make effort about it. Communication is the key to unlocking your relationship, bonding, friendship, intimacy. Without a good communication in your marriage is just like you subscribed to unhappiness and fights. Learn to communicate and you'll see creating a blissful marriage it's not myth or something you can't achieve. We offer singles and married counselling sessions, couple counselling and private coaching too. Click on the link in bio to browse through our services 🤗 #womenin4counselling
You can be married in either one of these three ways of marriage but we require all couples to fulfill all three forms of marriage to avoid confusion and dispute later on, as to whether were or have indeed been married. For singles and marriage counselling session and coaching click on the link in bio. The Easter couples are rounding up on their premarital counselling classes with us, if you're are getting married this year and haven't registered premarital counselling class with me you're honestly not ready for that marriage. Invest in your marriage journey not your luxury wedding! #womenin4counselling