Continuing the dialogue on boundaries! It's vital to voice and demonstrate setting boundaries, for both ourselves and our kids. Let's sprinkle in some phrases they need to hear: 'I said no to that, so please don't ask me again' and 'I know you want to go, but I said you are not going.' These conversations, though challenging, shape their understanding of boundaries.
And it's not just about saying 'no' to them; it's about holding firm with others too. 'I said I wasn't going to add more work to my plate, so no.' Hearing them hold your boundaries will help understand theirs better. Once we've talked about a rule, it's good to stick to it without going over it again and again. It helps us all understand what's expected and keeps things calm. Even if we ask them to stop, they might ask again, and that's okay. Just remember, it might take a while for them to get used to it. We'll keep reminding them, and eventually, they'll get the hang of it. But until then, let's be patient and consistent.
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