MY TESTIMONY This journey was long and I crossed the finish line with little to no support, encouragement, or help. I took a gamble on life and stopped working to go get my CDL Class A license. I had no income to pay my 4 bills or my credit cards, I almost gave up 3 times because learning a truck and all of its components and driving a big truck was all new for me. This journey showed me who loved me and supported me emotionally when I lost hope because I was doing this without working. But I did it!!!!!! Special thanks to my team: @rcssoutherncooking @big_fount_ @coco_creationz @prettyblackclo @curlyhairbryytt @brownsugarcoated @musicjunkie88 @crownvicqueen @atlcottoncandy @dwayne_t81 @starrfairrie and my daughter @highoffshae #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #ShaysBlackMamba #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #cdldriver #femaletrucker #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #truckdriver #atlantabeauty #femaleofficer #southernbelle #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #selflove #MsTuShay #femaleempowerment
I'm me and it is what it is. My heart is pure and my intentions are genuine. Betrayal hurts and no matter what I will not inflict the same pain inflicted on me. The sweetest revenge is none at all because the person who hurt you will worry themselves trying to figure out when you will get your luck back. 💯 #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #thickthighssavelives #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #atlantabeauty #southernbelle #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #selflove #MsTuShay
Just me Ms. Sweetpea 💜💜💜💜 Ladi TuShay . . . Brown-eyed Girl 😊😊 #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #ShaysBlackMamba #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #damnshethick #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #atlantabeauty #femaleofficer #southernbelle #blackisbeautiful #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #selflove #MsTuShay
It's overwhelming. God heal my heart ❤️ 💙 💜. #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #ShaysBlackMamba #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #damnshethick #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #atlantabeauty #femaleofficer #southernbelle #blackisbeautiful #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #selflove #MsTuShay
Have you ever asked to be appreciated, loved, cared for and just valued for being you? I had to stop asking and allow God to place someone in my life who I will never have to ask. "Be patient my child. Because love is patient and love is kind." 💜 I should never have to ask am I pretty, am I beautiful . . . Because I should be told this daily forever in my daily life. #LupusWarrior 1 Corinthians 13:4–8a #suninmyface #sunkissedskin #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #ShaysBlackMamba #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #femaleofficer #blackisbeautiful #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #MsTuShay #LupusWarrior #lupusawareness
There is no shame in being your own biggest fan and your personal cheerleader to get yourself pumped up to tackle the world. #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #miamibeauty #ShaysBlackMamba #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #damnshethick #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #atlantabeauty #femaleofficer #southernbelle #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #MsTuShay
It's just me Ms. TuShay . . . Nothing else to say. I know my picture will be overlooked (as usual) but I don't care. I won't show my ass for likes. You gone like me for me or keep scrolling for the thirst trap pictures. 😏 #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #ShaysBlackMamba #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #atlantabeauty #FloridaRaised #femaleofficer #southernbelle #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #MsTuShay
Just me Ms. Sweetpea 💜💜💜💜 #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #ShaysBlackMamba #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #damnshethick #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #atlantabeauty #femaleofficer #southernbelle #blackisbeautiful #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #selflove #MsTuShay
MESSAGE TO MYSELF: Hey there, gorgeous 😍! Keep pushing and remember your worth. You are strong, you are beautiful, you are worthy, and you deserve someone who also knows these things about you. March 29th, 2022 #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #southernbelle #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #selflove #melaninpoppin #MsTuShay #goodmorninggorgeous
I love the skin I'm in, no other acknowledge is needed. When I truly learned to love myself, it felt better. #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #southernbelle #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #selflove #MsTuShay #ilovemybody #imbeautiful
Slight message . . . TuShay you deserve someone will acknowledge you EVERY day. Someone who will tell you are beautiful, take you on dates, invite you out (even if it's business), take you on dates, random just because gifts and so much more. I know I deserve someone who will treat me as well as I treat him. #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #ShaysBlackMamba #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #damnshethick #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #atlantabeauty #femaleofficer #southernbelle #blackisbeautiful #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #selflove #MsTuShay
My 1st Fall Photo Another year of no holiday festivities. It's life and I'm all good. Let's focus on this good skin though . . . Melanin popping as usual. #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #southernbelle #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #selflove #melaninpoppin #MsTuShay #MsGrinch
TuShay . . . 💜 💜 . . . In my own lane, minding my own business and focused on me. #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #ShaysBlackMamba #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #damnshethick #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #atlantabeauty #femaleofficer #southernbelle #blackisbeautiful #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #selflove #MsTuShay
Know your worth and take control of your life. Put yourself first, make your life matter, and be your own first priority. Life is too short for anything else. #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #ShaysBlackMamba #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #damnshethick #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #atlantabeauty #femaleofficer #southernbelle #blackisbeautiful #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #selflove #MsTuShay
I'm flawed, my body is not perfect, I know what I want, I'm a hard worker and I refuse to settle for anything less than I deserve. I know who I am and that's all I can be. It's just me! Relaxed and stress free. Back working the late night shift, glad I love my job. 💜💜👮♀️💸 #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #ShaysBlackMamba #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #damnshethick #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #atlantabeauty #femaleofficer #southernbelle #blackisbeautiful #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #selflove #MsTuShay
It's just me . . . I am Ms. TuShay and happiness and self love found me! 💕 This is me and I am flawed, but my heart is flawless and so is the love that I give to everyone I encounter. Be the reason just ONE person smiles today because you could change their lives with a simple, "hello, how are you?" #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #ShaysBlackMamba #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #damnshethick #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #atlantabeauty #femaleofficer #southernbelle #blackisbeautiful #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #selflove #MsTuShay
Side note: The sun makes my melanin skin look amazing! 🥰🥰🥰🥰 Internal happiness and self love found me and changed me! With no regrets I have let go of all that was not for me, people included. No one supports my businesses and they wasn't really my friend. I stopped going above and beyond for everyone just to see that I was left all alone. Thanks to each and every person who showed me how much I meant to them. 1. I stopped calling everyone and now no one speaks to me. 2. I put myself first for once. 3. I left everything in God's hands. #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #ShaysBlackMamba #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #damnshethick #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #atlantabeauty #femaleofficer #southernbelle #blackisbeautiful #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #selflove #MsTuShay
Self love is all the love that I know. Allow me to be my own WCW . . . I know I have an amazing heart and a giving soul. These characteristics make me a beautiful person. I'm not perfect and not trying to be. But I am a good person, that's often taken for granted. #selflove #ShayLove #Iloveme #GAGirl #introvert #selfacknowledgement #EmpressShay #GAPeach #southernbelle #kindhearted #ohwell #melaninpoppin #brownskingirl #lettinggo #kindhearted #godscreation #thickthighssavelives #damnshethick #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #countrygirl #single #cancer♋ #atlantabeauty #femaleofficer #southernbelle #WCW #blackisbeautiful #melaninpoppin #homebody #MsTuShay
This year has really tested me and through it all, I continue to smile. I work extra hours to stay busy . I realized that people are not my friend and I have accepted things for what they are. Gonna stay quiet and keep rebuilding myself. 1. Got divorced . . . Still single & not dating. 2. Lost friends . . . True colors got exposed. 3. Battled depression . . . Learned self worth. 4. Stopped reaching out to people . . . Everyone disappeared. 5. Let go of my stress and focused on me. Happiness and self love found me! #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #ShaysBlackMamba #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #damnshethick #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #atlantabeauty #femaleofficer #southernbelle #blackisbeautiful #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #selflove #MsTuShay
When a toxic person can no longer control you, they will try to control how others see you. It may seem unfair but stay above it. Eventually, others will see the truth just like you did. If not, those people are probably toxic as well so you should avoid them too. A lie don't care who tell it. Glad that people really know ME. TuShay aka SweetPea is most definitely a big hearted person. And too often people don't appreciate me. But NO MORE!!! #selflove #ShayLove #Iloveme #GAGirl #selfacknowledgement #EmpressShay #GAPeach #southernbelle #kindhearted #ohwell #melaninpoppin #brownskingirl #lettinggo #kindhearted #godscreation #thickthighssavelives #damnshethick #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #countrygirl #single #atlantabeauty #femaleofficer #southernbelle #blackisbeautiful #melaninpoppin #homebody #MsTuShay
Just another day in my new life. The sun makes my soft skin SHINE so bright! New life, no longer a wife, now I'm just going to live my life and build myself up. #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #ShaysBlackMamba #msofficer #sunkissedskin #thickthighssavelives #damnshethick #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #atlantabeauty #femaleofficer #southernbelle #blackisbeautiful #melaninpoppin #homebody #sunkissedskin #MsTuShay
I was holding on to something that let me go months ago. I tried talking to other people but my heart just isn't feeling it. I was used and taken advantage of, until that person obtained their end goals. But now I know better so I will do better. Back into my shell I go. I will have no human contact on a personal level. Let go and let God handle it. Karma is coming for those who crossed me when I gave them my last. #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #atpeace #protected #selfacknowledgement #MsTuShay #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #ShaysBlackMamba #msofficer #Godschild #thickthighssavelives #damnshethick #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #atlantabeauty #femaleofficer #southernbelle #blackisbeautiful #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #selflove
Self Acknowledgement Sunday: I matter! I am NOT OPTIONAL. I am pretty. I am worthy. My heart is good, giving, pure and I know that I treat people better than they treat me. I had to really sit down and realize my worth. So often people like me are hurt, mentally and emotionally abused and treated so bad. But when I am seen in public all you see is a smile. Just know kmow my smile is FULL of PAIN. But I push through no matter what. When I'm dead gone so many people gone claim they love me, but while I'm here no love even exist. That's why I have to love me and appreciate myself. NOTE: The sun makes my soft skin SHINE!!!!! #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #blackisbeautiful #blackgirlmagic #melanin #selflove #ShayLove #selfacknowledgement #blackgirlsrock #GAGirl #GAPeach #ShaysBlackMamba #msofficer #thickthighssavelives #damnshethick #asmilefullofpain #independentwoman #iloveme #countrygirl #single #atlantabeauty #femaleofficer #southernbelle #blackisbeautiful #melaninpoppin #homebody #brownskingirls #selflove #MsTuShay
The sun on my melanin skin makes me look like I'm glowing. We have to keep smiling through the pain we experience. Stay strong and do not allow yourself to be broken. #takenforgranted #asmilefullofpain #naturalbeaty #locdlife #melaninpoppin #ShayLove #GAGirl #MsTuShay #aintnothinglikeaGAgirl #goofygirls #GAPeach #southernbelle #ohwell #EmpressShay #sillygirl #itgirl #locsforwomen #ilovemesomeme #selflove #melanin #brownskingirl #selfacknowledgement #femaleofficer #quotes #independentwoman #melanin #atlantasugly #thickgirlswinning #brownskingirl #brownskinbeauty
Lesson learned and changes made. Life is too short for you to go through the unnecessary BS. Make things better within YOURSELF. Move silently and smoothly. Allow those who betrayed you to come to their own conclusions. #takenforgranted #asmilefullofpain #futureauthor #naturalbeaty #locdlife #melaninpoppin #ShayLove #GAGirl #aintnothinglikeaGAgirl #goofygirls #GAPeach #southernbelle #ohwell #EmpressShay #sillygirl #itgirl #locsforwomen #ilovemesomeme #selflove #melanin #brownskingirl #selfacknowledgement #femaleofficer #quotes #independentwoman #melanin #MsTuShay #thickgirlswinning #brownskingirl #brownskinbeauty
Lesson learned and changes made. Life is too short for you to go through the unnecessary BS. Make things better within YOURSELF. Move silently and smoothly. Allow those who betrayed you to come to their own conclusions. #takenforgranted #asmilefullofpain #futureauthor #naturalbeaty #melaninpoppin #ShayLove #GAGirl #aintnothinglikeaGAgirl #goofygirls #GAPeach #southernbelle #ohwell #EmpressShay #sillygirl #itgirl #ilovemesomeme #selflove #femaleofficer #quotes #independentwoman #melanin #thickgirlswinning #brownskingirl #brownskinbeauty #blackgirlmagic #blackgirlsrock #goofygirl #blacklivesmatter #blackofficers #blacklawenforcement
Even in black & white you can see the pain in my eyes. But I keep smiling because my Smile is Full of Pain. Writing my story to tell the world. #takenforgranted #asmilefullofpain #naturalbeaty #melaninpoppin #ShayLove #GAGirl #MsTuShay #aintnothinglikeaGAgirl #goofygirls #GAPeach #southernbelle #ohwell #EmpressShay #sillygirl #itgirl #ilovemesomeme #selflove #femaleofficer #independentwoman #melanin #thickgirlswinning #brownskingirl #brownskinbeauty #blackgirlmagic #blackgirlsrock #goofygirl #blacklivesmatter #blackofficers #blacklawenforcement
Oh okay . . . Unbothered as ever! Goofy pics make me laugh at myself. 😂😆😁😄 #takenforgranted #asmilefullofpain #futureauthor #naturalbeaty #melaninpoppin #ShayLove #GAGirl #MsTuShay #aintnothinglikeaGAgirl #goofygirls #GAPeach #southernbelle #ohwell #EmpressShay #sillygirl #ilovemesomeme #selflove #femaleofficer #independentwoman #melanin #thickgirlswinning #brownskingirl #brownskinbeauty #blackgirlmagic #blackgirlsrock #goofygirl #blacklivesmatter #blackofficers #blacklawenforcement
#keithflint #perfection #asmilefullofpain #theprodigy ❤️
Being goofy! Oh well who cares what you think. #takenforgranted #asmilefullofpain #futureauthor #naturalbeaty #rawanduncut #melaninpoppin #ShayLove #GAGirl #aintnothinglikeaGAgirl #goofygirls #GAPeach #southernbelle #ohwell #EmpressShay #sillygirl #bossladymindset #itgirl #ilovemesomeme #selflove #femaleofficer #independentwoman #melanin #thickgirlswinning #conciouswomentastebetter #brownskingirl #brownskinbeauty #blackgirlmagic #blackgirlsrock
Self love is the best love! Love yourself and know your worth! #pumawoman #puma #takenforgranted #sunkissed #asmilefullofpain #futureauthor #naturalbeaty #rawanduncut #melaninpoppin #ShayLove #GAGirl #aintnothinglikeaGAgirl #GAPeach #southernbelle #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #allblack #ilovemesomeme #selflove #WCW #femaleofficer #independentwoman #pumawomen #pumashoes #shorthair #shorthairstyles #countrygirl #melaninbeauty #brownskinbeauty #brownskin
A Smile Full of Pain . . . To know me is to love me. So when you hurt me it cuts deep. This is me raw and uncut, no make-up, no filters. If you don't accept me for me then someone else will. Be blessed #prettyinpink #takenforgranted #asmilefullofpain #futureauthor #naturalbeaty #rawanduncut #melaninpoppin #ShayLove #GAGirl #aintnothinglikeaGAgirl #GAPeach #southernbelle #EmpressShay #bossladymindset #ilovemesomeme #selflove #WCW #femaleofficer #puma #independentwoman #pumawomen
Happy Sunday people. I will not be broken. I am a true go getter and I can't go nowhere but up from here. A Smile Full of Pain . . . Coming soon. Stay tuned folks my book is in progress. #ASmileFullOfPain #futureauthor #Writer #Truestories #tellthetruthshamethedevil #realwoman #blackgirlmagic #blackisbeautiful #countrygirl #bossladymindset #Pain #youdontknowmystory #youdontknowmypain #EmpressShay #SweetPea #thickgirlswinning #LOVEfailedme #letmeexpressmyself #feelmypain #blackauthors #entrepreneur #southernbelle #MsTuShay