Manipulation is about confusion. If I can confuse you with my words you may not hold me accountable for my actions. Words lie, actions never do! Believe the behavior and do not be distracted by the explanation. #narcissisticabuse #confusingmarriage #dysfunctionalfamily #narcissisticparent #abuse101 #manipulationtactic #narcissisticabuseexpertcoach #deeprootsfamilytherapy #cynthiawagenhauserlisw #christiantherapy #divorcerecoveryforwomen
I don’t know about you but sometimes pithy sayings on social media confuse me. Like this one, “Remember to take Care of yourself.” As a recovering people pleaser and codependent person taking care of OTHERS has been my specialty! So how do I get to the place where I can take care of me? Isn’t it selfish to focus on myself? Taking care of ourself and our needs doesn’t mean we don’t love and care for others, it just means we make time for ourselves. That we take time to listen to our own body and needs and honor those. Here are some suggestions for how to do that. You matter! Even Jesus went off by himself to pray and rest. If it’s good for Jesus, it’s good for us 🥰💕! #peoplepleasingrecovery #peoplepleaserinrecovery #codependencycounseling #narcissisticabuserecovery #confusingmarriage #momlife #familylifeeducation #familytherapysolutions #deeprootsfamilytherapy #divorcerecoveryforwomen #cynthiawagenhauserlisw
Stop 🛑 scrolling!!!! If this sounds like you, STOP IT! If you wouldn’t say it to a friend, why say it to yourself? We heal by being more compassionate and loving to ourselves not more harsh. Are you one of these people? ⬇️Comment below. #nogaslighting #nogaslightingallowed #selfcompassion #divorcerecoveryforwomen #codependencyhealing #outofthefog #narcissisticabuseexpert #confusingmarriage #emotionalabuseisstillabuse #deeprootsfamilytherapy #cynthiawagenhauserlisw #toledotherapist
When I was in the midst of a difficult and confusing marriage to someone with untreated mental health issues, I was always exhausted. It was an emotional exhaustion. Riding the emotional roller coaster 🎢 day in and day out for years had taken its toll on not only my physical and emotional health but also my spirit. When the signs were clear that nothing was going to change unless I did, I made the difficult choice to leave. When I say my body, emotions and spirit were lifted…I mean it was like a major weight I had carried had been removed off of me. I went from looking old and frazzled to feeling and looking years younger. Do yourself a favor, don’t let someone’s lack of care for you and themselves pull you under. If you need help, DM me to see how we can work together. #mentalillnessisreal #destructivemarriage #confusingmarriage #chronicillness #autoimmunewarrior #divorcerecoveryforwomen #narcabuserecovery #narcissisticfamily #outofthefog #deeprootsfamilytherapy #cynthiawagenhauserlisw #christiantherapy
“Let go and let God” is a slogan of AA and many other recovery ❤️🩹 groups because it recognizes that we have finite energy and we had better use it to focus on our own issues than to try and fix others. I’m recovering from trying to change my former spouse, I realize that the only person I can change is me. No amount of prayer or conversation or convincing is going to change someone who doesn’t see a problem in their behavior and choices. I started asking myself what do I want? What am I going to do to take care of me and the kids? What can you do to take care of you? You matter! #divorcinganarcissist #codependencyrecovery #codependentnomore #freeatlast #forfreedomchristsetusfree #galations5 #destructivemarriage #confusingmarriage #outofthefog #letgoletgod #recoveryjourney #domesticviolenceadvocate #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticabuseexpert #deeprootsfamilytherapy #cynthiawagenhauserlisw
😂😂😂 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️ Once upon a time in a land far, far away! #chrysalistobutterfly #iamnotwhoiusedtobe #iamanewcreation #divorcerecoveryforwomen #divorcesupportforwomen #divorcinganarcissist #outofthefog #confusingmarriage #destructivemarriage #galations5 #christhassetmefree #depressionandanxiety #cptsdsupport #narcissisticabuseexpert #deeprootsfamilytherapy #cynthiawagenhauserlisw
Acceptance isn’t about agreeing. It sometimes means agreeing to disagree. Allowing others to have different opinions than we have and not trying to change that. It’s letting go of the outcome or the attempt to change something or someone. Is acceptance something that you struggle with? What do you have a hard time accepting? What would it look like for you to let that go? Like, share and follow 🙌🏽💕 #acceptancequotes #lettinggoquotes #freedom #outofthefog #confusingmarriage #codependencycounseling #christiantherapy #deeprootsfamilytherapy #cynthiawagenhauserlisw
I have a secret 🤫 If you have physical pain it may be due to illness OR it may be stuffed emotions and not feeling able to speak up for yourself or feeling stuffed anger. The Bible says that bitterness eats away our bones. What are you storing that you need to speak up about? What are you storing that you need to give to God to handle? What are you storing that you need to let go of and care for yourself? #christianfamilycounseling #confusingmarriage #destructivemarriage #narcissisticfamilysystem #deeprootsfamilytherapy #cynthiawagenhauserlisw #codependencyrecovery #bitterroots #christiantherapist #storedemotions #chronicpainawareness #traumarecoveryjourney #fibromyalgia
I wasn’t going to share this. But as a woman who lived many years in an emotional, financially and spiritually abusive relationship, this scripture gives me great comfort! Can anyone relate? #emotionalabuseisabuse #financialabuseisabuse #spiritualabuseisreal #domesticviolenceadvocate #christianmarriagecounseling #destructivemarriage #confusingmarriage #outofthefog #deeprootsfamilytherapy #cynthiawagenhauserlisw
I often quote this scripture in psalms when working with clients who are fearful of what others will say about them if they make choices that go against what others want of them. When you are torn about what to do or what direction to take ask google, “what does the Bible say about____? It will bring up God’s word on a lot of what you are going through. It along with prayer will help guide you to the best decision. #psalm118v6 #deeprootsfamilytherapy #christiantherapy #christianmentalhealth #godswordsays #whatcanmandotome #narcissisticfamily #divorcerecoveryforwoman #codependentrelationship #confusingmarriage #destructivemarriage #emotionalabuse #traumarecoveryjourney #cynthiawagenhauserlisw
Marriage counseling is NOT suggested if there has been emotional or any physical threats or abuse in the relationship. WHY? *gaslighting makes it difficult to tell who is telling the truth. *a partner who lacks insight or desire to change. *One person maintains all the power in decision making. *lack of safety after leaving the office. If you see yourself in any of these, get therapy for yourself. Working one on one with a therapist can help you become stronger and help you identify patterns in the relationship that may need addressing individually. #relationshipquiz #confusingmarriage #christianmarriagecounseling #deeprootsfamilytherapy #cynthiawagenhauserlisw #walkingoneggshells #keepingthepeace #confusion #outofthefog #narcissisticabuserecovery #circularconversations #gaslightingisabuse #codependentrecovery
No one should always have the final vote in the relationship. Marriage is a partnership, a team if you will. You both need to be doing your part for the team to “win.” Do you agree? Comment ⬇️ #deeprootsfamilytherapy #christianmarriagecounseling #christiantherapy #happyfamilies #happyspousehappyhouse #abuserecoverysupport #divorcesupportforwomen #confusingmarriage #codependencyrecovery #narcissisticfamily #cynthiawagenhauserlisw
Did you know??? The conversation never ends. The resolution never comes, no matter how much you try. It’s not you. Tag/share this with someone who may need to hear this. Follow our journey for more @deep_roots_family_therapy #confusingrelationships #confusingmarriage #christianmarriagecounseling #hesayshesachristian #narcissisticmarriage #narcissisticfamily #controllingrelationship #godisinthisstory #deeprootsfamilytherapy #cynthiawagenhauserlisw #divorcerecoveryforwomen
365 Days of Fear NOT. Overcome Fear with FAITH. He provides. He comforts. He speaks kindly. Know the Truth. Feel the Truth. #selfcompassion #selfcompassionjourney #fearnot #donotbeafraid #fearnot #fear #healing #healingjourney #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissisticabuserecovery #toxicmarriage #toxicmarriages #toxicmarriagesurvivor #toxicrelationship #toxicrelationships #toxicrelationshipsurvivor #confusingmarriage
365 Days of Fear NOT. Overcome Fear with FAITH. How did Jesus speak to you? How is Jesus healing you? Know the Truth. Feel the Truth. #selfcompassion #selfcompassionjourney #fearnot #donotbeafraid #fearnot #fear #healing #healingjourney #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissisticabuserecovery #toxicmarriage #toxicmarriages #toxicmarriagesurvivor #toxicrelationship #toxicrelationships #toxicrelationshipsurvivor #confusingmarriage
365 Days of Fear NOT. Overcome Fear with FAITH. God can turn the harm done to us into a blessing. Know the Truth. Feel the Truth. #selfcompassion #selfcompassionjourney #fearnot #donotbeafraid #fearnot #fear #healing #healingjourney #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissisticabuserecovery #toxicmarriage #toxicmarriages #toxicmarriagesurvivor #toxicrelationship #toxicrelationships #toxicrelationshipsurvivor #confusingmarriage
365 Days of Fear NOT. Overcome Fear with FAITH. YOU ARE PRICELESS! Know the Truth. Feel the Truth. #selfcompassion #selfcompassionjourney #fearnot #donotbeafraid #fearnot #fear #healing #healingjourney #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissisticabuserecovery #toxicmarriage #toxicmarriages #toxicmarriagesurvivor #toxicrelationship #toxicrelationships #toxicrelationshipsurvivor #confusingmarriage
365 Days of Fear NOT. Overcome Fear with FAITH. Jesus is our Healer. Know the Truth. Feel the Truth. #selfcompassion #selfcompassionjourney #fearnot #donotbeafraid #fearnot #fear #healing #healingjourney #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissisticabuserecovery #toxicmarriage #toxicmarriages #toxicmarriagesurvivor #toxicrelationship #toxicrelationships #toxicrelationshipsurvivor #confusingmarriage
365 Days of Fear NOT. Overcome Fear with FAITH. He is our God. He is our Father. Know the Truth. Feel the Truth. #selfcompassion #selfcompassionjourney #fearnot #donotbeafraid #fearnot #fear #healing #healingjourney #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissisticabuserecovery #toxicmarriage #toxicmarriages #toxicmarriagesurvivor #toxicrelationship #toxicrelationships #toxicrelationshipsurvivor #confusingmarriage
365 Days of Fear NOT. Overcome Fear with FAITH. Know the Truth. Feel the Truth. #selfcompassion #selfcompassionjourney #fearnot #donotbeafraid #fearnot #fear #healing #healingjourney #narcissist #narcissism #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissisticabuserecovery #toxicmarriage #toxicmarriages #toxicmarriagesurvivor #toxicrelationship #toxicrelationships #toxicrelationshipsurvivor #confusingmarriage
Baca novel romantis di Wattpad: 💖Confusing Marriage, klik link di bio atau cari username: chaequinAn Facebook: chaequin Slide 1: Cover Slide 2: Pindahan dari Line Webtoon: Lovely Days Slide 3: Awal Pertemuan Slide 4: Mimpi yang Selalu Datang Slide 5-6: Direktur yang Dingin itu Slide 7: Pasangan di Hari Pernikahan Sahabat Slide 8: Hari yang Baik, Hari yang Buruk Slide 9: Sepertinya Baik Slide 10: Gambar Bonus 💖Plus cerita baru dengan judul: My Boss, My Strange Husband #thanksgod #chaequin #chaequinAn #wattpad #confusingmarriage #baper #baperstory #story #lovestory #romantic #romanticstory #novel #gambar #novelbergambar #cerita #romantis #ceritabergambar #ceritaromantis #love #lovely #blessed #karya #wattpad #pic #pictures #husbandandwife #husbandandwifestory