What are your thoughts? Do you behave exactly the same with all your children? Do you notice they provoke different emotions and behaviors in you? #parentingtips #authoritativeparenting #authoritativeparentingstyle #parentingstyles #authoritarianparenting #permissiveparenting #neglectfulparenting #developmentalpsychology #raisingkidsright #siblings👫 #raisingsiblings #raisingbigfamilies #siblingrivalry #favouritechild #parentingstylesresearch
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An authoritarian parent uses strict rules and punishments to handle their child’s behavior. They have high expectations and are not flexible. These children are good at following instructions and behaving well but they may grow up to fear punishment and have an inability to make decisions. This can cause them to make rebellious choices and lack social skills. . . . . #authoritarianparenting #neglectfulparenting #permissiveparenting #permissiveparentingstyle #therapy #therapists #psychotherapy #therapistsofinstagram #trauma #individualtherapy #njtherapy #njtherapists #southjerseytherapy #womenandtherapy #womenandchildbirth #womenspyschotherapy
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Attachment parenting was developed in the 1980s by paediatrician William Sears and his wife, nurse Mary Sears. They believed that the modern world, selfishness, and misguided experts, have made parents emotionally detached from their children. Their goal is for parents to rebuild their attachment with their children. How? Mostly by long-term breastfeeding, baby-wearing, & co-sleeping. Attachment parenting is practiced by many parents but there are some important aspects that we should consider. First, AP states that if you follow their guidelines you will have a well-adjusted child. This idea is misguided because it assumes that parents can control how children turn out to be. This is not the case. Parents matter but there are other factors that influence how children develop. Second, there’s no doubt that children who feel loved tend to do better, but there’s no evidence that AP is the only way to achieve this or that it guarantees a ‘great’ child. There are many children who haven’t been raised this way and thrive. Your child can develop a secure attachment without breastfeeding, co-sleeping, or being carried in a sling all day long. Third, AP is really taxing for mothers and may put a strain on the couple. Many mothers are afraid to put their baby down while they have a shower or leave them to sleep in another room. They feel as bad mothers is they can no breastfeed or if they want to or need to go back to work. This is so unfair and not supported by evidence. What is the take-home message? If AP works for you, great! If it doesn’t or do you want to try it: Do not worry, it doesn’t make you a bad mother! 🤗
Four Main Parenting Styles: Authoritative, Authoritarian, Permissive and Neglectful. Which one is yours? Psychologists Baumrid, Maccoby, and Martin rated thousands of parents and children along two dimensions: warmth and demandingness. Based on those two dimensions they concluded that each parent falls into one of the four main parenting styles: Authoritative, Authoritarian, Permissive, and Neglectful. Why are parenting styles important? Because they play a role in children’s development. You may have heard about other parenting styles (gentle parenting, helicopter parenting, attachment parenting, laid back parenting, reflective parenting, natural parenting, and so many others!). The reality is that most of these parenting styles do the rounds in social media and the press but there is not much (or any) scientific research backing them. What is the take-home message? Authoritative parenting is the gold standard of parenting. Neglectful parenting is the worst we can do for our children. A note: You may have noticed that I use the words ‘tend to’ or ‘are likely’ when explaining each parenting style. This is because developmental psychology research cannot say 100% that something will happen, it can say that something is likely to happen. Let’s take the example of neglectful parenting. Studies show that children of neglectful parents are very likely to do poorly in life. Does this mean that all neglected children will do badly? No. There are neglected children who do well. We cannot categorically say that all neglected children will struggle, we can only say that neglected children are more likely to struggle. #parentingtips #parentingstyles #authoritativeparenting #authoritarianparenting #permissiveparenting #neglectfulparenting #uninvolvedparenting #gentleparenting #intensiveparenting #parentingstylespsychology #developmentalpsychology #childdevelopment #parentingmatters
• The lens of anarchy & abolition focus on identifying the systemic roots of our pain because this is how we build community & solidarity which in itself is a liberating process. It isn’t just something “wrong” with you, or your family, or the toxic people you were in relationships with or the generations before them- we are all abused as victims of oppression. We see that breaking micro cycles of violence requires us to see ourselves just as capable of harm as anyone else given the right context. When we reduce the source of our trauma to select individuals, we also miss the ongoing systemic trauma we’re constantly exposed to. Part of understanding how we’ve been socialized with capitalist, colonial beliefs & oppressive social constructs throughout our childhood, is to see how we may still have these patterns show up in our relational dynamics today. Having sociopolitical context to your pain, distress, relational issues— allows you to assess what you need to work on to build a sustainable foundation you can call home with decentralized equitable relationships. It can help you understand why you find it difficult to let go of certain patterns or find yourself repeating harmful patterns or stuck/ stagnant. It helps you define boundaries for how you engage not just with people but capitalism itself. It helps you identify where you have more agency today than you did as a child to make different choices to break from cycles of harm. Systems of oppression are upheld by cultures of oppression & to dismantle them, we must understand how growing up in this society has weighed on us. - Ayesha Khan, PH.D • 🎥 Mastinn Kipp • • #systemic #societal #cultural #shameculture #cult #culture #powerdynamics #injustice #humanrights #authoritarian #authoritarianparenting #emotion #neglect #repressedemotions #dissociation #copingmechanisms #trauma #healing #integration #wounds #peace #love #equality #dismantling #whitesupremacyculture #eurocentro #capitalism #profitsoverpeople #humanity #justice
Why do so many adults believe that children deliberately plot and scheme and manipulate? Why do they believe that they need “to be taught a lesson” through fear, pain, or social exclusion? Why do they feel that ‘the problem’ is parents who are too weak, or too soft on children? Are children today really worse behaved than they were in the past? Are most parents today permissive, raising feral delinquents? Or, could it be that these childist statements tell us FAR more about the person speaking them than they do the children (and parents) they are complaining about? So often people state “it never did me any harm”, when it is quite clear that they came to great harm during their childhood, the sad thing is not only are they not aware of it, they perpetuate the cycle. Do you agree? #gentleparenting #permissiveparenting #authoritarianparenting #authoritativeparenting #gentlediscipline #mindfulparenting #respectfulparenting #childism #childrights #childrensrights #innerchild #innerchildhealing #generationaltrauma #aces #childmentalhealth #adolescentmentalhealth #camhs #childrensmentalhealth #parenting #parentingtips #parentingadvice #parents #raisingworldchangers #raisingthefuture #parenthood #childdevelopment #childpsychology #peacefulparenting #raisingteens #raisingtweens
📣 Understanding Parenting Styles and Strategies for Improvement 🧒🌱 Parenting styles are crucial in shaping a child’s development and well-being. Let’s explore various parenting styles and discuss strategies to improve them for healthier parent-child relationships. #ParentingStyles #PositiveParenting #EffectiveParenting #ParentingTips #ParentingStrategies #CommunicationSkills 1️⃣ Authoritarian Parenting Style: An overly authoritarian approach can lead to adverse outcomes. Improve this style by fostering open communication, empathy, and flexibility. #AuthoritarianParenting #OpenCommunication #Empathy #Flexibility 2️⃣ Permissive Parenting Style: Improve the permissive parenting style by setting clear boundaries, being consistent, and encouraging responsibility. #PermissiveParenting #ClearBoundaries #Consistency #Responsibility 3️⃣ Authoritative Parenting Style: Even authoritative parents can benefit from improvement. Practice active listening, positive reinforcement, and flexibility. #AuthoritativeParenting #ActiveListening #PositiveReinforcement #Flexibility By understanding different parenting styles and implementing strategies for improvement, parents can cultivate healthier relationships with their children. #ParentChildRelationships #HealthyParenting #ChildDevelopment Remember that every child is unique, and it’s important to adapt parenting approaches accordingly. Foster open communication empathy, set boundaries, and be consistent to promote positive development. #NurturingEnvironment #PositiveDevelopment #ParentingStrategies
🌟 *Embracing the Strength of Authoritarian Parenting* 🌟 👩👧👦 *Firm yet nurturing:* Provide the structure and discipline your child needs, balanced with unwavering support and love. 💬 *Clear expectations:* Create a home environment where rules are understood and followed, fostering a sense of security and predictability. 🔒 *Respectful obedience:* Teach your children the importance of respecting authority while also valuing their input and opinions. 💡 *Consistent consequences:* Implement consequences for actions that are fair, firm, and directly related to the behavior, promoting accountability and growth. 🚀 *Cultivating resilience:* Equip your children with the tools to overcome challenges by instilling a strong work ethic, determination, and perseverance. 💖 Together, let's empower our children to thrive in a structured environment, nurturing their potential and preparing them for success Follow for more❤️ For details contact: INTUITIVE INSIGHTS . . . . #intuitive._.insights #Intuitiveinsights #Intuitive #Insights #MentalHealth #Therapy #MentalHealthAwareness #TherapyServices #CounselingServices #Psychologist #OnlineTherapy #PsychologicalService #MentalHealthServices #CounselingServices #TherapySession #CounselingHelp #MentalHealthCounseling #SupportiveCounseling #OnlineCounseling #EmotionalSupport #CounselingWorks #OnlineCounseling #child #children #parenting #parentingskills #childparenting #authoritarian #authoritarianparenting #freedom
This one is for the days we feel like we aren't doing enough. That we aren't showing up as perfect parents. Bookmark it for when you need a reminder. Reach out thru DMs if you need support with your parenting, I have a 10 week transformation program to share. #breakingthepattern #generationaltrauma #tigerparenting #authoritativeparenting #gentleparenting #authenticity #authenticparenting #emotionalregulation #nervoussystemregulation #authoritarianparenting #permissiveparenting #parentingwithcptsd #innerscapeparenting #innerscapecoaching #innerscape
Ever wondered if you're a Matilda-esque Authoritarian or a Chris Gardner-inspired Authoritative parent? We're breaking down parenting styles through the magic of movies! Swipe to see which movie best reflects your approach (or your parents'!). #ParentingStyles #MatildaEsqueAuthoritarian #ChrisGardnerInspiredAuthoritative #MovieMagicParenting #AuthoritarianParenting #AuthoritativeParenting #ParentingThroughMovies #MatildaParenting #ChrisGardnerParenting #MovieInspiredParenting #MindtalkCommunity #Mindtalk
Here are a few solutions that could help you depending on which parenting style you tend more towards to.🌈 . . . . . . ↠ Reference: https://www.facebook.com/marieclaudebrochupsychoeducatrice/photos/a.143561231466120/151603593995217/?type=3 #parenting #professionalservices #coaching #childdevelopment #childhood #psychoeducation #parentingstyles #educationalimpacts #parentingtips #parentingsolutions #authoritativeparenting #authoritarianparenting #permissiveparenting #neglectfulparenting #relationships #behavioralchange #childhoodneeds #childhooddevelopment
Did you ever wonder what were the possible impacts of the different parenting styles? Take a look!☀️ . . . . . . ↠ Reference: https://www.facebook.com/marieclaudebrochupsychoeducatrice/photos/a.143561231466120/151603593995217/?type=3 #parenting #professionalservices #coaching #childdevelopment #childhood #psychoeducation #parentingstyles #educationalimpacts #authoritativeparenting #authoritarianparenting #permissiveparenting #neglectfulparenting #relationships #behavioralchange #childhoodneeds #childhooddevelopment
Parenting styles greatly affect an individual's development and their outcomes as they get older. This is why they matter, and especially to understand them!
Based on the combination of two dimensions – demandingness and responsiveness – there are four parenting styles: authoritative (i.e., high demandingness and high responsiveness); authoritarian (i.e., high demandingness and low responsiveness); indulgent or permissive (i.e., low demandingness and high responsiveness) and neglectful or uninvolved (i.e., low demandingness and low responsiveness). Which one do you relate to the most? . . . . . . ↠ Reference: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmcarticlesPMC6323136#:~:text=Based%20on%20the%20combination%20of,and%20high%20responsiveness%3B%20and #parenting #professionalservices #coaching #childdevelopment #childhood #psychoeducation #parentingstyles #authoritativeparenting #authoritarianparenting #permissiveparenting #neglectfulparenting #relationships #behavioralchange #childhoodneeds #childhooddevelopment
Di antara 4 jenis pola pengasuhan tersebut, manakah yang terbaik untuk si kecil di rumah? Jawab di kolom komentar ya ayah-bunda 😊 #neglectfulparenting #authoritativeparenting #authoritarianparenting #permissiveparenting
💥 💥 We all get angry sometimes. But what if our child is regularly challenging us or for some other reason we just can't stop ourselves losing it? Or maybe someone else in your child's life is harsh to them? Read today's new blog by Prof Stephen Scott to learn why this matters! (link in bio 👆). The impact harsh words have on children and most importantly what we can do about it if we realise this is us or someone we know. Words matter. Especially to children. And it's never too late to put things right. @myhorridparent @wordsmattercharity #wordsmatter #parentingmattersUK #harshparenting #harshparent #harshparents #authoritarianparent #authoritarianparenting #parentalanger #parentalangermgmt #parentalangerissues #parentingmatters #parentingtips #parnetinghelp #parentingsupport #parentingcommunity #onlineparentingcourse #mumstress #parentstress #singledad #singlemum #workingparent #coparenting #parentingishard #parentingishardaf
⭐️I have seen metaphorical wars break out over the term “gentle parenting” in my various circles. Some academics scoff at it, others defend it aggressively and this is what I have to say about it: if you are employing an equal balance of warmth or sensitivity to your child’s needs, AND boundaries (limit setting) YOU ARE DOING IT RIGHT. 🧠 The research is rarely unanimous about much, however study after study in developmental psychology reveals time and time again that authoritative parenting (warmth + boundaries) yields a secure attachment. A secure attachment is often our best bet at mental wellbeing, strong sense of self, emotional maturity, academic success, ability to weather storms and happiness. 🛑This is in contrast to permissive parenting (high in warmth, low in boundaries) and authoritarian parenting (low in warmth, high in boundaries) which often do not lead to secure attachment or wellbeing across a variety of measures. 🌱 So, instead of spending our time picking apart the labels and the scripts, a quick way to figure out if you’re “doing it right” is to ask yourself whether you are spending approximately the same amount of energy in your day showing sensitivity to your child’s needs AND having clear, consistent and predictable boundaries. Most of us lean slightly more towards one pole, and that’s okay. Just like everything in life, we continue to work to achieve a balance over time. ❤️ Give yourself grace. You’re here, so I know you’re doing a great job. For more on what a boundary entails, please check out my post with @burrowmama on this topic! Sources: Hayek J, Schneider F, Lahoud N, Tueni M, de Vries H (2022) Authoritative parenting stimulates academic achievement, also partly via self-efficacy and intention towards getting good grades. PLOS ONE 17(3): e0265595. https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0265595 Levin, E. (2011). Baumrind’s Parenting Styles. In: Goldstein, S., Naglieri, J.A. (eds) Encyclopedia of Child Behavior and Development. Springer, Boston, MA. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-0-387-79061-9_293 #gentleparenting #authoritativeparenting #permissiveparenting #authoritarianparenting #parenting #childdevelopment
Creative Discipline, Connected Family #bookstagram #autismappreciation #authoritarianparenting #reparentingmyself #foolsjourney #mycaregiversfailedme I will be my own hero. They moved me around from my birth date to several states + several locations within several states for many years. They did not provide me with my basic needs of home clothes food in the way required for healthy development. They were both too self or other invested plus emotionally immature/emotionally unbalanced and financially insecure to provide these necessities. There was no calm, orderly, clean home environment. No medical provisions that were routine as instructed. A bit of background. Dad is an alcoholic, gambling addict with personality disorder from a European country where he was a turd to his parents + disappointment to his country. He illegally left his naval service entering one if not both Canada and the USA. He was deported from Canada back to Greece at one point in his migration processes. Lies to my mother claiming he was one age when in reality he was 11 years senior that age at the restaurant in Eldora, Iowa where met + employed. My mom was naïve wanting of a loving relationship at 18. She comes from generational trauma where she says her needs went unmet blaming my grandfather + siblings for harm received. She said my grandfather was an SOB. Verbal, physical abuse as well as emotional neglect is her nuclear background. She is very theoretically intelligent. When she was tasked with aiding me in my homework pursuits I did not understand her-more frustration. My grandmother physically assaulted me a lot throughout my childhood as well other children. I was told what to do without explanation by all + threatened/rewarded. My developmental disabilities were disregarded and instead of getting outside support my mother would take me out of the school system to move me schools plus say I’m theatrical and or bad to others. Dismissive + Avoidant. My dad left our family home when I was 8-wasn’t around much neways. I didn’t see him for two years and afterwards for only summers which we worked long hours on pavement until 17. Ok byeeee
What type of parent are you? We ALL need to be intentional about our parenting so we can be the kind of parent we want to be…and it takes work!! If we don’t work at it…if we just do what comes naturally…it will not go as well, and our children suffer the consequences. We will scroll on our phones, or ignore bad behavior, or let digital media become ubiquitous in our homes, etc. Never stop working at being a better parent! #parenting #pediatrics #whatkindofparentareyou #typesofparents #authoritativeparenting #permissiveparenting #authoritarianparenting #uninvolvedparenting
Understanding the impact of parenting styles on child mental health can empower parents and caregivers to adopt approaches that promote positive outcomes and foster resilience in their children. Let's strive to create nurturing environments where children can thrive emotionally and psychologically. #parentingstyle #parenting #parentingstyles #childrendevelopment #authoritativeparenting #authoritarianparenting #permissiveparenting #uninvolvedparenting #texasmentalhealth #texasmentalhealthprofessional
Analysis 4 Why should we talk about parenting styles towards Generation Alpha? According to an article titled “Changing parenting style between two generations and its impact on the severity of behavioral and emotional symptoms,” parenting styles should be addressed when taking into consideration understanding more about Generation Alpha. There are four types of parenting styles, authoritarian, which is characterized by a very strict parenting style, authoritative, which is a parenting style that is positive and nurturing while still setting limits and boundaries, passive parenting which is characterized by a more lenient parenting style without imposing necessary boundaries, and lastly there is neglectful parenting, characterized by an unresponsiveness from the parent to the child. The study presented by this article shows that as generations pass by, there is an increase of relationship warmth from parent to child as newer generations become parents. It then discusses those studies' results and how it impacts society. Scientists are discovering that newer generations are becoming more authoritative and imposing a less strict and a less neglectful style of parenting. This is valuable to know because it shows that generation alpha is becoming warmer, accepting and more empathetic. It is easy to read and understand. I highly recommend this article! Click on the link to learn more for yourself! #authoritarianparenting #unpluggedgenalpha #warmth #generations https://eds-p-ebscohost-com.proxy.library.maryville.edu/eds/pdfviewer/pdfviewer?vid=6&sid=d4bacc4b-5df7-4b3a-a5c1-03b73e1b5dc7%40redis
Parenting Styles There are four main parenting styles that you as a parent may implement. The parenting styles vary a lot; no one type is necessarily better or worse. These styles do affect the child’s development differently though. Authoritative parenting can lead to a self-reliant child. Authoritarian parenting is firm parenting similar to authoritative but not as warm; this can lead your child to turn out to be rebellious, dependent, and aggressive. The third type of parenting is permissive it is a very passive parenting that can lead your child to not listen to orders as it was not expected of them in the home. The final parenting style uninvolved/ neglectful parenting due to the parents uninvolvement the child me have impulsive behavior, self regulation issues, and may not listen to anyone. Can you identify what parenting style you use? Do you think that is the best style for you and your child? #parent #parenting #parentingstyle #authoritativeparenting #authoritarianparenting #permissiveparentingstyle #uninvolvedparenting
🚨 !! Spoiler Alert !! 🚨 Wah, siapa sangka kita bisa belajar how NOT to parent dari film yang satu ini ⁉️ Apa aja sih yang dapat kita pelajari tentang parenting dari cast film Ngeri-Ngeri Sedap ini👨👧👧❓ Yuk simak slidesnya! 💫 #authoritarianparenting #authoritarian #parenting
✨Fun Fact Friday✨ is back this week with this one on parenting styles. Based on a recent survey, 51% of current parents have an Authoritative or Gentle parenting style. 🙌🏻 #gentleparenting #gentleparent #authoritativeparenting #authoritative #parenting #parentingstyle #parentingstyles #permissiveparentingstyle #authoritarianparenting #moms #parenting #parents #parent
Here is the quiz that will help you know your parenting style. This is the full length version of the reel that we had posted earlier (more detailed and has audio voiceover) Take the quiz at: https://youtu.be/zyKJrNC0MDc Please do not forget to share your insights and feedback with us. #parentingstyle #parentingstyles #effectiveparenting #rainbowkiddies #childdevelopment #socialandemotionallearning #authoritativeparenting #authoritarianparenting #permissiveparenting #neglectfulparenting #parenting #parentingtips #parentinghacks
What is low demand parenting, then? And how does it differ from other parenting approaches? And does it really matter? I tried to keep it brief but sometimes nuance requires a whole 4 minutes(!) of your time even if Instagram hates me for it 😉 I’ve been enjoying the conversation around parenting ‘styles’ and labels so I’d love to hear your thoughts on this one too. Have a swipe through and let me know what you think 💛 #gentleparenting #lowdemandparenting #permissiveparenting #authoritarianparenting #parentingstyles #parentingstrategies #parentingsupport
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Last week, we promised you that we were going to dive more into each parenting style - and here is our first focus, Authoritarian Parenting! Swipe to learn more about what this parenting style looks like and how it might impact children who experience it. #AuthoritarianParenting #ParentingStyle #ChildDevelopment #VMAP
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When we think of emotional intelligence we often think of *awareness* of emotions, but it is more nuanced that this. There are different concepts of emotional intelligence but Psychologist Daniel Goleman has described FIVE components to it: 1. How aware we are of our own feelings. 2. How well we can regulate them in different settings. 3. Empathy (being tuned in to others' emotional state). 4. Social skills to build relationships. 5. Motivation to learn more and keep developing. We might be more 'developed' in some of these components than in others, and for parents of the 'seen and not heard' generation who were parented in a more 'authoritarian' style, we can have significant gaps in our emotional intelligence. This does not mean we cannot learn and develop greater emotional intelligence, however, and in doing so we will create the opportunity for deeper connections with our children, so we can start enjoying them for the unique human beings that they are 💛 #parentingforhumans #emotionalintelligence #ListenToChildren #authoritarianparenting
Our latest article explores the most effective parenting style & a few more, drawing on insights from psychological research to offer the right guidance for parents. Let us know if this helped. https://rainbowkiddies.com/unlock-the-benefits-of-effective-parenting-explore-parenting-styles/ #effectiveparenting #rainbowkiddies #childdevelopment #socialandemotionallearning #authoritativeparenting #authoritarianparenting #permissiveparenting #neglectfulparenting #parenting #parentingtips #parentinghacks
Try to accept yourself for who you are, even if you sometimes make mistakes. The mistakes are what makes you human, even if your parents never realized that or made you feel like everything you did wasn’t ever good enough. 🫶 #strictparents #authoritarianparenting #inner #lifecoaching #empowerment #selfawareness #innerchild #positivethoughts #affirmations #positivemindset #dailyquotes #inspirational #encourage #quotes #selfgrowth #personalgrowth #positivity #personaldevelopment #happyday #mentalhealth #love #trending #loveyourself #createhappiness #toptags #inspiration #happy #mindfulness #empowermentquotes #acceptyourself
You want to improve your approach to parenting but don’t know where to start. Then you come across conscious parenting but there is SO much info out there that you get overwhelmed and don’t know what is “right”. (When it comes to what is right, it is what suits YOU and how YOU want to parent). Conscious parenting, gentle parenting, respectful parenting, attachment parenting, and peaceful parenting are all based on what is called authoritative parenting (doesn’t really have the same ring to it though, does it?) The name itself doesn’t really matter, it’s the principles, characteristics and outcomes for children that are the most important. The only problem with the name is that it is up for interpretation (or misinterpretation). Authoritative parenting is based on the theory of attachment, developed by psychologist Mary Ainsworth in the 1970s. Her research found that responsive parenting creates secure attachment in the child. Children are happier and healthier when they have secure attachments, follow @sarahfindlaynz to learn the basics in a simple, researched-based, no-nonsense way! #consciousparenting #consciousparent #consciousparentingtools #gentleparenting #authorativeparenting #authoritarianparenting #parenting #parentingtools #parentingtips #consciousmama #attachmentparenting
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‼️ Gaya parenting yang mengontrol hanya akan bikin anak tidak terkontrol‼️ Mungkin Bapak Ibu di sini udah pernah ngerasain gimana kaku dan awkwardnya cerita sama orang tua, dan tentu nggak mau hal itu terjadi pada anak kita. Gaya parenting otoriter bakal menciptakan gap antara orang tua dan anak yang ujung-ujungnya bikin kita sebagai orang tua bahkan nggak mengenal anak kita sendiri 💆♀️ #CIMBNiagaKejarMimpi #KejarMimpi #KejarMimpiKeluarga #Parenting #AuthoritarianParenting
Pola asuh otoriter adalah pola asuh yang menegakkan hukuman & disiplin, Tuntutan yang tinggi, tanpa kasih sayang yang cukup. Tidak ada salahnya orang tua menerapkan pola asuh ini. Asalkan sesuai dengan kebiasaan anak dan kesiapan orang tua dalam menerima dampak positif maupun negatif dari pola asuh otoriter. ✅Komen di bawah ya jika parents menemukan contoh kalimat atau kata lain yang tergolong pola asuh otoriter. 📌Jangan lupa follow akun @galuhkriswastiningrum untuk info parenting lainnnya. #polaasuhanak #polaasuhotoriter #authoritarianparenting #hukuman #disiplin #memaksa #dampak
More on how authoritarian parenting is a form of trauma. It is not based on unconditional love. It is based on fear. Punishment or reward is dished out depending on how well you abide by the rules. You are conditioned through your subconscious that you need to "perform". Were you a "good girl" or "good boy"? There is fear within you whether you will receive love, or whether you will experience rejection and abandonment. This is a matter of SURVIVAL for a child. This is when we go into states of chronic underlying stress, which overtime lead to adrenal fatigue. You are not just an "anxious person." You have experienced systematic trauma, and trained to react to potential threats on a consistent basis. You can imagine years of living like this through childhood, teenage years, adulthood, and the toll it takes on the body, until you choose to heal. Healing is completely possible with the right tools 🙏 #authoritarian #authoritarianparenting #survivalmode #fear #anxiety #fightorflight #punishment #reward #trauma #healing #therapy #holistic #hokistichealing
Were you raised by a narcissistic or toxic parent? Signs of Parental Narcissistic Abuse might include: - Lack of empathy & compassion - Verbal abuse (belittling, blaming, bullying, shaming, raging) - Manipulation & controlling behavior - Not taking accountability for their behavior - Ruling by domination, fear, or manipulation - Disregarding boundaries & only showing conditional love - Side-effects of Narcissistic Parental Abuse & Family Trauma can include: - Anxiety & Depression - Post-traumatic stress & flashbacks Shame, guilt, anger & confusion - Self-medicating with drugs, alcohol, food, shopping, etc - Dissociation & self-isolation - Difficulty trusting others & yourself Low self worth & physical health challenges If any of this rings true for you, I want you to know that you’re not alone. And...help is HERE! I want to share an amazing opportunity for you to join me for a FREE, AVAIYA University online event that I’m participating in - specifically designed to help you heal from family trauma, break free from toxicity, and experience the peace, love & healthy relationships you deserve! please sign up for this free event at this link or check out the link in my bio. https://megh—avaiya.thrivecart.com/rfnp-special/ #narcissisticparents #narcissisticabuse #narcissisticinjury #narcissm #narcissisticmothers #narcissisticfathers #narcissisticandemotionalabuse #emotionalabuse #authoritarian #authoritarianparenting #abusiveparents #narcissisticabuseawareness #healingfamilytrauma #familytrauma #narcissisticfamilies #holistichealing #holisticpsychologist #spiritualpsychotherapy #somaticpsychotherapy #transpersonalpsychology #drmeghaworth
What beliefs did you grow up believing? Are they similar to how you and your spouse were raised? How were children viewed in your family or culture? Were children to be seen, not heard? Obey instantly? Or were they embraced? Or maybe even got away with too much? Were your feelings responded to with curiosity, openness or a desire to understand? Or were they shut down quickly out of frustration? The messages you grew up believing contribute to the filter you now see things through and the world around you. Taking the time to understand those beliefs and the impact this plays in how you now parent, how you see things or how you desire to parent is so powerful! . . . . . #consciousparenting #purposefulparenting #parentingstyles #authoritativeparenting #authoritarianparenting #permissiveparenting #uninvolvedparenting #helicopterparenting #hardmomday #gentleparenting #highlysensitivechild #highlysensitivekid #highlysensitivelittleone #highlysensitive #peacefulparent #peacefulparenting
Ever wonder how your parenting style stacks up? Swipe through to learn about the different styles and their potential impact on your child's development! Remember, there's no one-size-fits-all approach, and the best style is the one that works for YOU and your family! Content credit-@khushi_panwar07 Design credit- @meghana_hegde03 Contact for more information! +91 70585 77356 #parentingtips #authoritativeparenting #permissiveparenting #authoritarianparenting #uninvolvedparenting #balancedparenting Are you aware about your Parenting style?
Taking the time to understand how you were raised and the impact this plays in how you now parent or how you desire to parent is so powerful! Especially if you and your spouse grew up with very different parenting styles with opposing views on how to resolve conflicts, discipline, roles each parent plays, or even how to show affection. Making time to sit down together to have an open and honest conversation about where these views stem from allows us to see things from a different angle, connect on a deeper level and have more compassion for one another in the hard moments. (For more on this and prompts -check out “what’s your parenting style?” Blog link in bio) Developmental psychologist Diana Baumrind developed 3 main parenting styles in the 1960’s based on a parents level of warmth + control with a 4th “uninvolved style” added later on. * Authoritarian Parenting Style: High on Control, Low on Warmth * Authoritative Parenting Style: High on Control, High on Warmth * Permissive Parenting Style: Low on Control, High on Warmth * Uninvolved Parenting Style: Low on Control, Low on Warmth They were developed based on decades of research correlating how children were raised in relation to how they developed in terms of social competence, academic performance, risky behaviours, and overall well being. The American Academy of Paediatrics, several psychologists worldwide and decades of research backed studies point to the authoritative style resulting in the best impact on how the child developed in terms of respectfulness, confidence, resiliency and capability. There are several different variations of parenting styles and factors to be considered. It is so important to note, while it is helpful in understanding how you were raised and the impact this plays in how you now parent or how you desire to parent, life is dynamic and ever evolving. Each family, child, parent and situation is completely different and unique. #parentingstyles #consciousparenting #authoritativeparenting #authoritarianparenting #raisingchildren #hardmomday #highlysensitivechild #highlysensitivelittles #highlysensitivekid #gentleparentinglife #parentingcourse
the 4 main parenting styles 🙌🏻 I always get authoritarian and authoritative mixed up because the words are so similar! made sure I got it right this time 😂 Which were YOUR parents? #ParentingStyles #ParentingTips #AuthoritarianParenting #AuthoritativeParenting #PermissiveParenting #NeglectfulParenting #ParentSupport #CycleBreakers #CycleBreakingCommunity #MumCommunity #MumSupport #Blogger #MumBloggerUk #ConsciousParenting
Adults who were raised by authoritarian parents may carry the impact of rigid rules and limited autonomy. Shaped by control rather than understanding, they might face challenges expressing themselves authentically. It’s crucial for these individuals to recognize their worth beyond imposed boundaries, embracing self-expression as a powerful tool for healing. By acknowledging the past, fostering self-awareness, and nurturing self-compassion, they can break free from the shadows of control. Each step toward asserting their voice is a step toward reclaiming autonomy and fostering a more confident, liberated self. - 由權威型父母撫養長大的成年人，可能會受到嚴厲規則和有限自主權的影響。 他們受到控制而未被理解的影響，可能難以真實表達自己。 對這些人來說，認識自己並超越被父母強加的限制至關重要。 透過承認過去、培養自我意識和自我同情心，將可以擺脫權威型父母的陰影。 發出自我聲音的每一步都是朝著收回自主權和培養更自信、自由的成熟心態更邁出一步。 #blkaughealing #healingjourney #breakingfree #authoritarianparenting #communication #positivereinforcement #empathy #freedom #autonomy #selfexpress #權威型父母 #溝通 #鼓勵 #傾聽 #壓力 #自我表達 #自主權 #自由
Embrace your journey beyond authoritarian boundaries. Break free from the echoes of control, rediscover your voice, and confidently express the authentic you. Your experiences shape but do not define you. It’s never too late to reclaim your autonomy and shine. #blkaughealing #youareenough #healingjourney #wellness #mentalwellness #mental #mentalhealth #mindfulness #childhood #trauma #childhoodtrauma #traumahealing #therapy #session #healing #selfcare #selfhealing #acceptance #selfcompassion #breakingfree #authoritarianparenting #reward #listening #communication #positivereinforcement #empathy #freedom #autonomy #selfexpress
Coming up this week on @thewellbeinghubteentips... A blog regarding authoritative and authoritarian parenting by Parenting Coach, Julia Philpott. To try now visit club.teentips.co.uk #WellbeingHub #teentips #achievebelongparticipate #authoritativeparenting #authoritarianparenting #parenting
Adults who were raised by authoritarian parents may carry the impact of rigid rules and limited autonomy. Shaped by control rather than understanding, they might face challenges expressing themselves authentically. It’s crucial for these individuals to recognize their worth beyond imposed boundaries, embracing self-expression as a powerful tool for healing. By acknowledging the past, fostering self-awareness, and nurturing self-compassion, they can break free from the shadows of control. Each step toward asserting their voice is a step toward reclaiming autonomy and fostering a more confident, liberated self. - 由權威型父母撫養長大的成年人，可能會受到嚴厲規則和有限自主權的影響。 他們受到控制而未被理解的影響，可能難以真實表達自己。 對這些人來說，認識自己並超越被父母強加的限制至關重要。 透過承認過去、培養自我意識和自我同情心，將可以擺脫權威型父母的陰影。 發出自我聲音的每一步都是朝著收回自主權和培養更自信、自由的成熟心態更邁出一步。 #blkaughealing #healingjourney #breakingfree #authoritarianparenting #communication #positivereinforcement #empathy #freedom #autonomy #selfexpress #權威型父母 #溝通 #鼓勵 #傾聽 #壓力 #自我表達 #自主權 #自由
Embrace your journey beyond authoritarian boundaries. Break free from the echoes of control, rediscover your voice, and confidently express the authentic you. Your experiences shape but do not define you. It’s never too late to reclaim your autonomy and shine. #blkaughealing #youareenough #healingjourney #wellness #mentalwellness #mental #mentalhealth #mindfulness #childhood #trauma #childhoodtrauma #traumahealing #therapy #session #healing #selfcare #selfhealing #acceptance #selfcompassion #breakingfree #authoritarianparenting #reward #listening #communication #positivereinforcement #empathy #freedom #autonomy #selfexpress
We kickstart our series on parenting styles with Authoritarian - an approach synonymous with obedience, discipline, and control. This style of parenting is known for its structured environment, marked by firm rules and elevated expectations. In a household where authoritarian parenting is dominant, flexibility and open dialogue often take a back seat to a more rigid, ‘iron fist’ method. More distinctively, this parenting style is rooted in the belief that strictness is key to maintaining order and discipline. 🤔💭 Food for thought 💭🤔 While authoritarian parenting is not inherently bad or negative, it has been linked to certain challenges in child development. What, to you, are some positive and negative aspects of this parenting style? Stay tuned as we delve deeper into this style! #ParentingStyles #authoritarianparenting
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Four Paths of Parenthood: The Authoritarian’s Firm Grip, the Authoritative’s Guiding Hand, the Permissive’s Open Arms, and the Uninvolved’s Distant Horizon Let’s talk about each of them? Comment to tell about Authoritarian style! What is Authoritarian parenting style? #parenting #parents #parentingtips #reelsinstagram #reelitfeelit #reels #reelsindia #relatable #kids #relatablepost #pov #explore #foryou #reelkarofeelkaro #explorepage #instagood #deeprhoughts #deepthoughts #indianparents #indianparentsbelike #parentingstyle #parentingstyles #authoritarianparenting
While having boundaries and expectations of your children is healthy, rules have to be balanced with warmth and respect for your child as well. Children of parents who are too strict may have some of the above mentioned issues! . A University of Georgia study found that children whose parents are strict are more likely to act out. They are also less able to self-regulate and solve problems once they are older😧 . Alternate methods that parents follow or should adhere to, would be covered further! 😊 #parents #parenting# parentalprotocol #authoritarianparenting #research
Parenting is hard. Period. But I do believe parents who actively try to break generational patterns of parenting need to be applauded and recognized for their efforts. Anyways, off of my soap box, but why authoriTATIVE vs authoriTARIAN parenting styles. Let’s dive in! Authoritative Parenting seek to establish boundaries, but with warmth and communication. There are consequences, but the execution is oftentimes more consistent and appropriate. Authoritative parents are vigilant of their children’s whereabouts along with who their children are playing with. Authoritarian Parenting seeks total control. There is inconsistency in consequence execution, and very little praise doled out. Expectations are high, but communication patterns are low. Unsurprisingly, one style highly correlates with increased observed and reported bullying behaviors in the children. Which one do you think it is? #totfinemotorcamp #handwritingforkids #bully #parenting #authoritativeparenting #authoritarianparenting
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It’s January and it’s a great time to remember that we ALL lean towards STRUCTURE or NURTURE naturally. The key is to find a way to increase whichever one is your weaker point. If you tend to be more structured, INCREASE the nurture! If you tend to be more nurturing, INCREASE the structure! THIS is how we avoid permissive or authoritarian parenting and find a way to be authoritative. For the free download visit the link in our or https://empoweredtoconnect.org/downloads-2/ #parentingstyles #authoritativeparent #gentleparenting #connectedparenting #attachmentparenting #permissiveparenting #authoritarianparenting #emotionalhealth #mentalhealth #protectiveparenting #parentingtips